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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2016
20 points

Hey man, I've been there. Nineteen was the rock-bottom point in my life. Luckily I had something of a breakthrough moment (during a total breakdown) that changed my perspective. Essentially, it comes...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2016
8 points

Can definitely feel you on the cringe. I remember when I tried online dating when I was 18 or so and I was hitting it off with some girl. Then she told me to leave her a voice message on her phone. Yo...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2016
2 points

It's situations like this where self-confidence is king. Taking pride in yourself and what you have to offer to the world. Yes, we all face adversity and go through some form of struggle. However, wha...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2016
2 points

It's nobody's fault you have a stutter. Many people, myself included, believe it *is* hereditary but like all bad genes passed down, it's just bad luck and nobody can predict it. As for not having ...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2016
5 points

If you didn't have a stutter you would blame something else (height, race, body shape). I understand the sentiment having a socially taboo disorder can have a large effect on your confidence. But for ...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
1 points

In terms of the virgin part, quite seriously I suggest hiring a hooker. I wasn't a virgin when I experimented with hookers, but it was a great move for my sexual confidence. It was more body shyness I...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2016
1 points

When I was younger, I thought my stutter would keep me single too. But a lot of girls are actually attracted to it. My last girlfriend, whom I dated for three years, said it was the hottest thing abou...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
5 points

I was in a similar situation. What i hated the most is my inability to be a smooth talker around girls. Its just impossible. Thought id die a virgin. Now a few weeks later I'm 22. In this past summer ...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2016
9 points

We don't have a choice dude some people have it easy and some people don't. Stuttering has an effect on the quality of life and their is on denying that. The pit scene in the Batman trilogy is proba...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2016
2 points

I have some friends and can also talk to girls (I'm lazy and a bit shy so I don't have great success but girls seem to like me time to time). Not long ago I talked to a girl and she asked if I'm a stu...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2016
1 points

It won't ruin your chances at all. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and the first time I met him, I stuttered on "hello". Stuttering won't ruin any chances. ...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2016
3 points

Would it help if I prefaced with "In my experience"? Because that's all it is. I'm not stating it as a rule or nothing. But growing up in East Texas and not having an interest in hunting or sports, I ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2016
-4 points

Female company is the best. I could never get into the whole "bro" thing at my college. Women are better. Smarter, quicker, funnier, more thoughtful, better listeners. Everything. ...

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postr/StutterOct 7, 2016
17 points

Dating Advice from an old stutterer

Dating Advice from an old stutterer I see a lot of questions about dating and how to approach it when you have a stutter so I decided to post about it. I am lucky enough to have gone on lots of date...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2016
1 points

I have already slept with this girl before (while drunk), and from the text i have recieved, she really want to do it again yes haha....

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2016
1 points

I dont know. For some people, yes. But this girl is kind of an extrovert while im a introvert without a doubt. She also has extremely high self confidence from what it seems....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2016
1 points

Im so embarassed by my stutter, i cant tell her atleast before i known her for quite a time....

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2016
9 points

Tell her you stutter and if she minds then good riddence you just saved yourself from a shitty weekend. If she doesn't mind then she already knows and you can relax.   >She wants me to st...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
postr/StutterOct 3, 2016
5 points

Should i give dating a second try this weekend?

Should i give dating a second try this weekend? I have been on one date before. I had talked to this girl a couple of times drunk, and mostly on snapchat. She invited herself over to watch a movie, an...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2016
1 points

I'm several years older than you and have not had a GF since high school. Between the speech problem, shyness, and social anxiety I forgot how to even engage in a social setting. Not that I care becau...

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