It's situations like this where self-confidence is king. Taking pride in yourself and what you have to offer to the world. Yes, we all face adversity and go through some form of struggle. However, what really matters is how you deal with it. The things you do to try and overcome your problems. If you do nothing about your problem it will stay there and grow. So what are you going to do about it? Since you've said you're a virgin, girls especially love a confident man. Don't get it confused with arrogance. Confidence can come from hobbies you have, morals you live by, the friends you keep among myriad ways. One thing we all need to realise is we are responsible for the course of our lives. We can blame other people all we want. But it's up to us to make change for ourselves. I recommend you read a book called Power of Your Subconscious Mind - Dr Joseph Murphy. It'll open up your mind to different actions you can take.