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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2025
4 points

I’m almost 21 and have had 4 jobs. 2 with little to no talking (dishwasher and currently Amazon) and 2 where talking is absolutely required (Student worker in my schools dining hall and hosting at a r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2025
22 points

Be open about it up front in interviews. I’m 25 as well and My current job as soon as the interview started I said “I just want to let you guys know I do have a stutter so if I pause or get stuck at a...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2025
2 points

I am already a Full Stack developer with 3 YOE working in the same company for 3 years. I tried changing the company, gave many interviews, for some company I reached till the final round but I don't ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2025
1 points

So you're feeling like stuttering is holding you back from moving up in the company to more senior / leadership positions? Or like getting promotions? Do I have this correct? I'm also in tech, comp...

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Employment & CareerAdvice RequestsDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2025
39 points

Putting "i have a stutter" on my lock screen

Putting "i have a stutter" on my lock screen So I was looking around to see if I could order a "I have a stutter" pin so I can show strangers that instead of stammering while telling them I have a sta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2025
2 points

I went on the McGuire Program a few years ago and to be honest I thought it was a cult. It reminds me very much of a pyramid scheme, as all of the coaches are former students of the program and aren...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2025
3 points

Actual speech therapist here. A couple of cheap tips for you. I work with clients to help them habituate these tricks, but a lot of it oils down to a) try not to stress about stuttering and b) stretch...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2025
2 points

YES. I especially hate the “hehe, you forgot your own name or something?”. I’ve learned if I stutter through something really embarrassing, I repeat it immediately afterwards, and I may sometimes eve...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2025
1 points

Interesting - sadly, i really don't know if i could make myself that vulnerable. However, recently (F' 24, about 1 yr after getting diagnosed*) in a very small class (about 10 students) I did disclos...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2025
2 points

Do you tell your students that you stutter? If you don’t, try it; your fear of discovery will be gone. Your speech may get easier, but regardless, it will no longer matter.....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2025
2 points

I start by saying pretty much the exact quote, "I'm sure you've noticed I have a stutter, I've always had it, it hasn't held me back from performing job duties, I'm always working on it, and I'm happy...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2025
2 points

If you bring it up at the start of the interview, it'll help you relax and it'll prevent them from making their own weird assumptions/judgements about your abilities. Most people are just uneducated a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2025
4 points

Your description is exactly how i used to think when i was 16. Decades later, I still stutter, but not as much, but i have stable job, stable relationship and stable life. All I say atm is go out of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
2 points

Someone commented on it during an interview. "Hey, I noticed you had some difficulties" and I explained I had a slight stutter. The other person in the room was fine with it and tried to ease the situ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
2 points

I feel you so much here, my stutter disappears and come back randomly, people who don't stutter really dont know how (this speech disorder, not stuttering in general) feels like, i truly send wishes t...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
4 points

"its just the way i speak" and that its not about being nervous - **is so true is very kind to say!** and I really admire ur whole reply; thanku for writing this! also, the last bit on the email is ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
2 points

The problem is that the talk is not work-related. Right now, I am unemployed. It is a talk related to peer support, because I am involved in an association. The people from the organization know me we...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
1 points

Thank you! I will try to talk with the people organizing the conference to see how I can include it in the presentation in the best way....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2025
3 points

Hey. Recent British university graduate here. And I stutter. You have 3 options:  1) On the UCAS form itself, there is a space for declaring a disability - stuttering/stammering is on the list. You ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsSchool & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2025
3 points

You said that you’re worried since no one warned them that you stutter… WARN THEM. That’s your job, my friend. They will be expecting it, and disappointed if you don’t deliver!...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries