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postr/StutterDec 10, 2024
6 points

My experience through an interview (+ ADA question)

My experience through an interview (+ ADA question) This is actually my first post! I recently had a 30 min virtual interview today for an Analyst role that I am really excited about, and I wanted to ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerAccess & RightsAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterDec 10, 2024
10 points

What kind of emotions do stuttering women cause?

What kind of emotions do stuttering women cause? Recently came across survey "how did you meet your partner?" and a girl asked whether stuttering is an obstacle to find relationship. Not to mention mo...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2024
1 points

You get expectation anxiety from the attention being pushed to only you, how to escape it is to actively focus on your mouth, stiffen your below and speak with emotion, for me atleast. The solut...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
14 points

As a stutterer I turn myself off talking so I couldn’t imagine what other people think lol...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
2 points

Dating apps is a numbers game. 5 dates in 4 months isn't bad. The more people you meet the more likely you'll meet someone who is a better match for you. Don't look at it as finding a person who'll to...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

I think this is it. I get really nervous before having to explain what someone said, even when talking to family....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
1 points

Sounds like these 2 situations both cause you anxiety which in turn causes you to anticipate them with fear. This all causes tension which causes you to stutter more severely. Suppose the main thing w...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2024
0 points

Why not? I stutter a lot and I can see someone getting awkward about it on a date, but my friends don't really seem to mind it...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 8, 2024
11 points

Stuttering, interviews, and a public/client facing career

Stuttering, interviews, and a public/client facing career This is modified from post I made on r/introvert now that I realize my issue is as much stuttering as it is introversion. I have had a severe...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerTrauma & PsychologicalHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
3 points

I agree with 99% of what u say - though I'm not sure the word "habit" (1%) is a proper term. As an alternative, I'd say: reinforcing a positive experience, thereby reducing anxiety which can contri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

Hi, friend. I’m 77f stuttered since childhood. I’m almost fluent in casual conversation but can stutter badly when I have to say any specific thing. Recently I’m having trouble with vowel sounds initi...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

My daughter goes by her Middle (maternal grandmother’s name) at school. She and I have the same first name (Family name). I want to call her by what she truly wants, but I also can not say it. It is f...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 8, 2024
2 points

My stuttering is alot better now, but struggling with Specific Sounds - Seeking Advice

My stuttering is alot better now, but struggling with Specific Sounds - Seeking Advice Hi everyone, I’ve been dealing with stuttering for a while now, and I wanted to share my experience and get some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
1 points

It’s a psychological habit. Like any habit, you can learn to break it and you can also relapse back into it. The stutter habit is the brain’s defense mechanisms triggered typically from anxiety, worry...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
9 points

It comes and goes… I have trouble with my wife’s name (at present)… I attribute my block to an emotional reaction I have to her… Probably something similar going on with you....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2024
2 points

>Will the stutter go away? Why did it come back? Sometimes the stutter comes and goes, it is just the way it is, we don't know why. There is no cure, but it may vanish again temporarily, usually stre...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 7, 2024
3 points

10 year old - sudden reoccurrence

10 year old - sudden reoccurrence My son began stuttering at age 4. He had huge blocks and would often show signs of distress and anguish while the stuttering occurred. They were whole word stutters....

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2024
1 points

Yes, I don't even stutter if there's zero anxiety like when I'm talking by myself. Anxiety makes it progressively worse to the point of blocking even on my name. I would say there is a linear correlat...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2024
1 points

Varies greatly for me. Had to make a grad school presentation once with an 9-10/0 anxiety and stuttered on almost every word. Had to give another presentation another time with 5/10 anxiety and got a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
postr/StutterDec 6, 2024
15 points

Dealing with parents with a stutter

Dealing with parents with a stutter I am 19 tomorrow , sadly my stutter is getting worser ever since I have gotten a job in retail . However I don’t really care much about and I am used to it . The p...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more