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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
6 points

When I was a kid my grandma would wash my mouth out with soap sometimes when I stuttered really badly. Of course that solved nothing and it made me really resent her. It was crazy and ridiculous for h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
2 points

That's very interesting. I guess I do a fake stutter at times but it's more to mock myself and belittle myself than it is to help myself, and it's usually under my breath too or when I'm alone I'd moc...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
3 points

Been there and actually done that. When I was a teen I was very ashamed (I still am ashamed, but much less now). I hated myself. I was mostly ashamed for what I felt was “less than” or “less intellige...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
8 points

I’ve felt like this my whole life but at some point you have to let that shame go it’s not good for your mental health friend embrace your stutter as what it is and be easy on your self it’s nothing w...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
19 points

Knock off that shame stuff. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF. It's a disability. It sounds like you're really struggling with it. Find a therapist to talk to. I'm not suggesting a speech therapist....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAdvice RequestsMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterJun 26, 2022
37 points

I have the urge to punch myself everytime I stutter.

I have the urge to punch myself everytime I stutter. I just feel so ashamed of myself everytime I stutter a lot in a small time frame....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2022
4 points

Wow thank you so much for this . Helps me feel not so alone , especially because I feel like I’m dumb and not good enough sometimes (obviously I know it isn’t intelligent based) but you know .. when y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
5 points

I truly understand your pain regarding it, my stutter makes me feel trapped inside my own mind... I don't really have any advice to give, I've been told the same bs as you after asking for help. I per...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
9 points

Dude I have all the reason to be shy😭.If I say what I want to say and I stutter the timing and delivery is going to be so off I wished I never even said what I said.If I don’t say what I wanted to sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 22, 2022
2 points

can childhood trauma lead to stuttering?

can childhood trauma lead to stuttering? I believe my stutter started when i was around 6yrs old after i got locked in a basement bedroom with no windows by my 13 yr old sister. I must've been in ther...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerExperiential Association+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
3 points

When I was in year 1 or 2 so about age 5/6, in my class we answered the register by saying “good morning” to whoever was next in the register to us, I had to say “good morning Grant” and then he would...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
1 points

F\*cking friends... This was a long time ago... Rap was really just getting popular. When I had my fluency blocks, I would say "um, um, um" for the longest time. I was able to use a "cheater" word to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
2 points

Same. Exactly same. Last 2 sentences are TOTALLY me (you could see my last post). I absolutely hate it as well. “I just wanna talk.” YUP. I’m on vacation (day 1) w/ lots of extended family (will be...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
7 points

When I was a kid, I was very shy and wouldn't talk much. If I spoke, I would speak only to one friend (the only boy in my school who shared my religion) and I wouldn't speak in English, despite being ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
20 points

Sorry, man, it's horrible. I feel the same way. Like I am really just a normal person with normal things to say. I'm not dumb, I do well in school and I could be funny and interesting, but no I always...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 19, 2022
54 points

My stutter makes me feel like a freak.

My stutter makes me feel like a freak. Just now I saw some friends in a discord call so I jumped in, they said I should get the game Unturned. I said I wasn't at my house and it wasn't my PC so I didn...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
3 points

Hi, I'm 59, been stuttering since my earliest memory, and unfortunately I've been as you've described all this time, I still feel the same now, I've let it rule my life entirely, I still don'...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 19, 2022
8 points

How can I stop caring so much about what people think?

How can I stop caring so much about what people think? Speech therapy is a little bit better this time around maybe. Anyway, I'm supposed to work on non avoidance. I've been trying to force myself to...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2022
3 points

Yup. I’m a pretty passionate basketball (most sports) fan. A while ago, I was trying to talk tell my dad how Jayson Tatum (player for the Boston Celtics) was having to use an inhaler before every ga...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2022
1 points

Man, I have a huge problem with mumbling too. I do it because it's easier for me to speak more fluently in a low monotone, but then it's incredibly annoying when people don't understand me and ask me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment