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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
1 points

I’d probably feel I had an inferiority complex, if I thought I deserved one. Edit: While being light hearted, I don’t want anyone to mistake that for dismissal of the problem. Stammers and stutters s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
2 points

My stutter wasn't nearly as bad as it is now when I was in high school and starting college. I was the chattiest social butterfly, and now I'm extremely shy around others and I only talk when I have t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 18, 2022
56 points

3 year old son just imitated my stutter.

3 year old son just imitated my stutter. Well, it happened. I have a stutter that flares up when I’m stressed or anxious and sometimes completely randomly. I’ve been determined to get it under control...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
1 points

I think in my case it was the cause. I started stuttering when I was 8, lot of stuff happened and it caused my stuttering, low self esteem issues, major insecurities (regarding everything about me) an...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
18 points

Stuttering makes me feel stupid and inferior, but I have no reason to feel inferior apart from that. I feel like this is the same sort of myth that a lot of people get in their heads that stutterers a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 18, 2022
7 points

Was just charged an extra $1.60 at a bakery because they think I’m illiterate because I have a stutter.

Was just charged an extra $1.60 at a bakery because they think I’m illiterate because I have a stutter. I didn’t say anything because getting upset would make my stutter worse and also likely make me ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 17, 2022
13 points

How do I end Stuttering?

How do I end Stuttering? I’m 22 years old and I can’t handle my Stuttering. It came to me due to intertwined genetics which I came to realize after my little cousins had Stuttering as well. I can’t ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesGenetic & Family FactorsShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

I had a similar experience in my college internship a few years ago. I was put in charge of tutoring kids ages 9 - 12 and they also asked me the same questions when my stutter/blocks would eventually ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

I know a few reasons that I can think of. Since I started this job, I've gained maybe a stone in weight which isn't great, I've also coincidentally started getting this chest pain and chest tightness...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

I just speak and if I stutter, I doubt anyone would hear or care but if I stutter really bad, I'll be deeply embarrassed...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

That took balls going out of your comfort zone and as a fellow pws I'm proud of you for facing your fears. You chose the hard path, you should proud that you put yourself out there. But fuck, that hum...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

>Boy was I wrong. I got laughed at all week by little kids who didn't understand me and kept asking why I talked so funny They came in contact with something they don't know / don't understand and...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

I get what you mean, I haven't had it happen face to face but I've had it happen during work in a call centre with kids doing shit prank calls. Even the other operator has laughed a little at my stutt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
32 points

I felt that.. Trying to do something about your fear of speaking and going out your comfort zone, only to be humiliated and beaten down like that. I know it's hard but try to think positively about th...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 16, 2022
55 points

Humiliated

Humiliated I volunteered to help with our church's VBS this week because I'm trying to talk more, and I figured it was a way to help out and to talk mostly just in front of kids, so less pressure (I s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 16, 2022
12 points

The story of my stuttering and how I'm going to get rid of it

The story of my stuttering and how I'm going to get rid of it First I would like to apologize for any mistakes in this long text since English is not my native language. Also I am very glad that I rec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

Unless he's a real jerk (which is possible), he probably wasn't laughing at you. It's possible that he was confused or nervous and just laughed as a reaction, or it's possible he just thought you were...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
5 points

Ty for the advice. I practice by myself so many times but when the time actually comes and people ask what my name is my throat closes up and nothing comes out. But thank you so much...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

One positive I can take from your suggestions, is the fact I would never have to voluntarily stutter, or make it my mission to do so. It’s a 100% guarantee, so at least that part is 0% effort on my pa...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterJul 15, 2022
32 points

I can’t say my name

I can’t say my name I’m about to be 20 and I can’t say my name. I’ve stuttered ever since I was little but the name thing started when I was in 8th grade. This is genuinely ruining my life. When there...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment