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postr/StutterJan 3, 2018
2 points

Check out this video about Stutterin and Dating - found it really helpfull

Check out this video about Stutterin and Dating - found it really helpfull ...

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postr/StutterJan 3, 2018
5 points

My story

My story Hello Reddit, If I decide to write this post here today it's obviously because I stutter and I need someone to lend an ear, here's my story and what bothers me : I've always stuttered, I don...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
1 points

If i were you, i would choose a work that doesn't involve too much talking for now, and i would work on myself a bit...try to talk to more people, build self confidence by doing things that you wouldn...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

You're pretty much forced to choose whether you want to attempt to hide your stutter or, as I'd suggest, disclose it and overcommunicate in other ways. Prove that you have command over your situation....

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

Hmm, imagine you walked into an interview missing fingers because of a childhood accident with fireworks, and the interviewer said "You do realize you have to type, right?" and you explained you can s...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
2 points

When the interviewer says "you do realize you have to talk to people," that's when you point out your previous experience and explain that you aren't incapable of talking to people. You can grow to be...

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2018
2 points

Help with my situation - can't get a job, afraid I can't get a boyfriend, have no friends and so lost and confused with my thoughts

Help with my situation - can't get a job, afraid I can't get a boyfriend, have no friends and so lost and confused with my thoughts Hi all. Thanks for reading and replying in advanced. Looking for new...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
4 points

Met my wife in the University cafeteria during my undergraduate years. Stuttering, Lonely and depressed, I decided to sit with new people for each meal, finding people who also ate alone to randomly s...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2017
2 points

It was, but at 21 I met a wonderful girl who took me for who I was and who I would become. In other words, she accepted me and saw right through me; that I am more than my stuttering. We have been...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
2 points

I know, it's weird right? It just happened naturally over time, I guess. If it helps, my first conversation with her was during volleyball practice, so I guess you just have to put yourself out there....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
2 points

How did you guys start talking? Did you just sit next to her one day and start up a convo? Just curious because I have trouble seeing how someone with a stutter ends up in a relationship, I'd kill to ...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
2 points

Yeah, we're in the same college class. We've been friends for a while. Tbh she's repeatedly told me she doesn't mind at all but our relationship is still young and who knows what might happen later....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
2 points

If I may ask, how did you find your girl? Does she know you stutter?...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2017
2 points

Hey man I'm sorry if this is too personal but did you break up because of stutter-related reasons or was it something else? I just started my first ever romantic relationship and I'm still anxious abo...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2017
2 points

No problem man. Keep trying, do online dating, improve yourself and learn to love yourself for who you are. This is something I am actively trying to do for myself. I recently had a 7 month relation...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2017
3 points

I have a unique take on your situation. I am an only child and of course I grew up with a mild stutter. I have experienced loneliness my entire life. Stuttering never held me back completely but it ha...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2017
3 points

Seems like you’re down in the dumps man. I can sympathize with the feeling of loneliness because of your stutter. I stutter too! I’m 24, and I can’t say that ever feel lonely. Stuttering can make it f...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2017
3 points

I have a decent enough stutter. It’s definitely noticeable, but I wouldn’t say it’s utterly devastating. I struggled with confidence my entire life due to it. It really held me back and honestly, it s...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2017
2 points

I never had a romantic partner or some kind of romantic relationship at all. I'm way too spooked plus I look like a 6' tall Gollum. (That self-loathing sure is a bitch.) lmao...

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commentr/StutterDec 26, 2017
3 points

Yes, so true. People who care about your stutter are too shallow and it just takes you less time to see their true colors. Ok, now you have to keep us updated. I hope date 2 goes well and I hope the...

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