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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2022
7 points

I have made a couple major choices to avoid opportunities because I feared failure. Not to say I’m not currently happy or a negative impact, but the regret is there. The biggest one is cancelling a co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2022
17 points

theyre both connected, I wouldnt worry about stuttering if stuttering didnt negatively effect my life...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 23, 2022
11 points

What has negatively impacted you more, worrying about stuttering or stuttering itself?

What has negatively impacted you more, worrying about stuttering or stuttering itself? ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
18 points

It forced me to become more assertive and to recognize the ways that I hold back my own potential in life. As a means of recovery, it forced me to give up my people-pleasing tendencies. I think stut...

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Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
1 points

Please don’t do it. I felt this way in college where I even didn’t do my presentation for my English class and ended up with a C and was happy with it. The next English class I took, I was forced to d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
4 points

THIS BRO. The fear just consumes me man. I’m 20 years old too. My anxiety ab stuttering has gotten so bad that I ditch certain classes so I don’t have to speak out loud and everytime before I speak, I...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
18 points

THIS is the stutter that I have the most problem with. After it happens I immediately just want to erase myself from existence...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2022
6 points

Me. I can speak with perfect fluency when alone but can start having issues when alone but speaking infront of a mirror. Not “full-on” as with actual people, but ~ 30% of my normal disfluency. This is...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2022
1 points

You too buddy. I hope you aren’t allowing the stutter to dictate your life....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2022
1 points

You're young. Having a stutter is hard, but it's the WORST at your age. You have a right to feel the way you do. It's a hard way to come up. I've also had a stutter since I was a kid (the only one...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
2 points

I can relate to this. Now I’m a senior, but I remember freshman orientations and other random stuff throughout the years that placed me in super similar situations. Like walking to class and some club...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
6 points

Nah bro, this is not it. Don't let your stutter ruin your dreams - it's especially painful to read that you're genuinely passionate about physics, it's not even like you're at Uni for the sake of it. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
1 points

IDK anything about PTSD, so I can't categorize my experience one way or another as it relates to PTSD. What I will say is that the negative experiences I had as a stutterer growing up have had a dist...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
29 points

Please don't go through with it. Those guys are bullies and jerks. One day you'll be a successful physicist and they'll be still be jerks. If a person with a stammer (me) can argue in front of judge, ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
4 points

I’m sorry you’re going through such thing. University days were challenging for me as well and somehow you survive the shitty days. Think about what would hurt you more: quitting university and workin...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
1 points

I have no idea who I would be if I didn't stutter. That's an imaginary person. My problems aren't only stuttering. I cannot "overcome" it - it is in my brain. I have been trying "overcome" it for 31 ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
5 points

And how would life be different if you didn’t stutter? A lot of our problems is internal, stuttering is just one external manifestation. Imagine your stuttering got cured and a couple years later you ...

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Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
1 points

Happy to hear that. I'm healthy too. Money isn't a problem for me. Yes, you can stutter and be "successful." But when I look inwards I just see a bottomless pit of trauma. I regard my own life as esse...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
3 points

Something to think about is in how you describe it, it's not the stutter that holds you back but your thoughts and fears. Your stutter is not the main problem. You can do things while you stutter. You...

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postr/StutterJan 16, 2022
38 points

I feel so behind in everything. Stuttering has stolen my identity.

I feel so behind in everything. Stuttering has stolen my identity. Took a gap year off, for personal reasons. Now I wanna take another one off just because I’m scared my stuttering will ruin my whole ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception