I have no idea who I would be if I didn't stutter. That's an imaginary person. My problems aren't only stuttering. I cannot "overcome" it - it is in my brain. I have been trying "overcome" it for 31 years and now I'm now closer than ever to "overcoming" it permanently by putting a bullet in my head. However I have low 7 figs to have fun with before I do it. In male social hierarchies there are those above who command/lead/dominate, and those below who cope with what they must. I'm done being in the latter category as I have been in it all my life because my voice does not work. I am done trying to be fixed. I can fix myself permanently anytime I want.