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postr/StutterDec 30, 2024
6 points

Seeking Tips for Talking to Someone Who Stutters

Seeking Tips for Talking to Someone Who Stutters I am not a stutterer, but I am looking for some tips on how to talk with a person who stutters. She and I regularly attend the same fitness class. I st...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 30, 2024
11 points

How to look more confident?

How to look more confident? I noticed being labeled as unconfident especially on dates. I admit that can be a bit nervous on first date and it's pretty normal for a lot of people, but stuttering exagg...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2024
1 points

It’s the negative thoughts and feelings which are the main problem. It’s a vicious circle as these negative thoughts and feelings make us avoid speaking as much as possible which in turn causes us a d...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2024
1 points

Not "unlikable" but like i cant make myself to be more likeable than my anxious/stuttering state...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2024
1 points

Sorry I did not mean for it to come off that way. I have had a stutter for 5 years on and off. I wished for nothing more than for my stutter to be fixed. It was torture stammering through every senten...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 29, 2024
0 points

How to fix stutter. A guide on how to fix a social stutter. This is also known as a developmental stutter. I had one for many years and finally figured out the cause of it along with how to fix it. I have so far tried this with 6 people I know with a stutter and had a 100% success rate.

How to fix stutter. A guide on how to fix a social stutter. This is also known as a developmental stutter. I had one for many years and finally figured out the cause of it along with how to fix it. I ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2024
4 points

My number 1 piece of advice would be to try and ignore it and not think about it as best as you can. If you start avoiding speaking situations it’s going to be a downward spiral. You will start to dev...

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postr/StutterDec 29, 2024
34 points

How to deal with the loneliness that comes with stuttering

How to deal with the loneliness that comes with stuttering I am lonely….. can’t keep up interesting conversations…also I look gross when I get stuck….. I can see that in people’s faces and attitudes ...

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Loneliness & IsolationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 29, 2024
8 points

Recently I have realized that I stutter a bit, now I can't not think about it every time I'm going to speak:/ (vent-ish??)

Recently I have realized that I stutter a bit, now I can't not think about it every time I'm going to speak:/ (vent-ish??) I've always been a pretty good speaker, I learned to speak early and was inte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2024
9 points

There’s a few reasons we stutter (and will always stutter from time to time like normal fluent speakers do and you will get there too) 1. You hyper-focus on speech in a very self conscious way (this...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterDec 28, 2024
15 points

my stutter story

my stutter story so the story behind my stammer, Let me narrate: I have been a stutterer since I was a child but it wasn’t something that bothered me much in my early childhood before class ten or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
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postr/StutterDec 28, 2024
13 points

taking vitamin D and K supplement has helped decrease stutter

taking vitamin D and K supplement has helped decrease stutter hi everyone! I’m a college aged person who has stuttered for as long as I can remember, almost exclusively anxiety related (I think), beca...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2024
10 points

Not a therapist, and haven’t went to speech therapy since I was 13ish. But it sounds like your anxiety is the main factor here. Unfortunately your stutter and anxiety are playing merry-go-round with ...

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postr/StutterDec 28, 2024
27 points

Is there really no way to control or completely stop your stuttering?

Is there really no way to control or completely stop your stuttering? I have so much anxiety about 2 things. My stutter and the person my stutter makes me. I keep thinking to myself that i would be ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/overcome_stutteringDec 27, 2024
1 points

Any mods or others who stutter - want to join me in researching about stutter conditioning? (Novel stimulus > unconditioned stimulus > CS > CR)

Any mods or others who stutter - want to join me in researching about stutter conditioning? (Novel stimulus > unconditioned stimulus > CS > CR) Nobody speaks all of the time, including non-stutterers ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 27, 2024
13 points

Toxic coping

Toxic coping Anyone else have any toxic coping stories? I remember a few years ago I was super into drinking and select drugs because it just made me stop stuttering. Alcohol was the heft of it tho. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2024
10 points

The girls I dated never mind. They thought it was cute, but I do remember this one girl who, in the mid of an argument, she said. Nobody is gonna love you because you stutter....

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Personal StoriesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2024
1 points

i think i’m going to. it’s just i feel that might be an awkward conversation. i like her sm, i js don’t want my stutter to be a turn off....

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2024
6 points

ik i totally get that. it’s just i tend to overthink, and it’s just been bothering me yk. do u ever think abt that stuff when ur with ur gf? and if so what did u do to help it? would talking to her ab...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 27, 2024
21 points

Does my gf really care abt my stutter?

Does my gf really care abt my stutter? I went out with my gf last night, and at first my stutter was a bit bumpy. but it got better. i felt bad because i was kinda quiet because i was nervous. but whe...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment