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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
3 points

Firstly cut that person off that u considered a friend. I’m surprised people our age (I’m 17M) still do shit like this, it’s upsetting and weird. Anyway it gets better though trust and congrats for be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

Yes, I do. Trying to get into a position (within the company) that doesn’t require so much talking. I feel so embarrassed when I have a stuttering spell....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
23 points

I’m really sorry you had to go through that, OP. That person is no friend at all and they’ve just shown you they are the type of person you don’t have to bother with from now on. Credit to you for get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

Yes, but wouldn’t you have an easier time doing something else? That doesn’t involve a lot of talking? Like product management for a marketing team / campaign? Sometimes the solution is not to hit a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

oh my god the twitches thing is so true. over time i’ve developed little ticks i do that “help” the word get out (lately it’s been worse even when i twitch so im lost and feeling not confident) have y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
2 points

Brother same thing happened to me!!! Mun is when i realized my stutter was a problem. Idk how it is for you but I noticed I talk really fast which triggers my stutter and then its hard to recover. I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
2 points

Just because you can’t see yourself doing it doesn’t mean every other stutterer can’t. Some people just don’t share the same inclination as you. Every stutterer is different. Some stutterers don’t let...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
5 points

About the last part feeling hesitant , something like this happened with me once and the girls basically bitched about me being some weirdo who can't speak shit and just wants empathy from people ( sm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

If girls around you are behaving like that , better not talk to them , I had similar struggles and I just made myself content with the fact that these petty people will never recognize me as 'normal' ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
4 points

It sounds like you're making a lot of assumptions. First, how old are these girls? If we're talking about girls in their early teens then I would say just try not to let it bother you. At this age eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

Same happened with me. Now o don't stutter at all but only in professional gatherings. How can i fix this...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

I am a shipping loader in a warehouse. I love warehouse jobs because I don't need to talk very often....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
2 points

I sell tree work and I know I can't get hung up on it because it doesn't help so I ignore it.  It was very hard at first but now I can even say my name with ease again.  That surprised me all over aga...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

Oh god I cant do public speaking, i made sure to find a job where I wouldnt have to talk in front of groups of people. that shit is my nightmare...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
-1 points

Marketing is not sales. Anyways I won’t hire myself to do a product marketing person or to sell the product. Stuttering sales / marketing guy is weird...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
3 points

Bro I’m sorry that happened to you. Just take it slow. Just speak slowly. That’s how I fixed mine. And if I feel like it’s coming in the middle of a conversation I just keep quiet for a second then co...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
3 points

I have a similar story, I used to read aloud in class and answer questions a lot throughout primary school. Then I met a guy who had a stutter and after interacting with him and even imitating him (te...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Experiential AssociationSchool & Academic LifeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
2 points

During gaming I can talk on mic without any issues. While playing wow we used to use Ventrilo for raid management. I would talk in a fake accent - mix of French, Russian. Quite effective with lot of ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
3 points

The more you stress over a word, the more you will put expectations on it, and block yourself. Stuttering is vicious, it feeds on fear, shame and frustration. The best thing to do is to say the word ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
5 points

This happened to me multiple times i used to skip on character i knew i was going to stutter on...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution