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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
1 points

Hi, i did say that I will not form a healthy relationship even if I get a chance to form it. So no matter how much destructive it can be for me, I will not do it. And it's ok. Even if I miss any once ...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
31 points

In my case, quite a lot, I consider that It doesn’t allow me to be myself, I limit myself a lot, I’m embarrassed to speak, sometimes I cry because I feel I can’t deal with so much pressure. Sometimes ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2022
1 points

Sure, in a way. Everything you do, big or small, has a reaction. That being said, avoiding it won't solve anything or help you in the long run. It may even make it more difficult in the future when ...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2022
14 points

Stuttering is one of those things people just assume you're retarded and don't even care if they made a mistake. Literally no one gives af, it's up to us to figure it out for ourselves...

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Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2022
3 points

Me too. I can't even talk to my own family without feeling like an outcast. You know how humiliating it is when my 5 year old cousin says "Even I can speak better than you" or you're stuck on a word a...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2022
2 points

well, whatever makes you temporariliy happy. but if you really want deep relationships and want to live life with your dreams, you will have to talk albeit with a stutter. look at king george, joe bi...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2022
1 points

So, if you continue with this mindset and letting the stutter control your life instead of the other way around, one day you will look back and wonder why did you always take the easiest road… and wha...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2022
2 points

Oh boy, let’s take a deep breath and look at this from several perspectives: Yours and theirs. Form your perspective, you’re a person wanting to get into university and make a big step towards your ...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2022
6 points

Respond back immediately. Get that interview set up and get to it! Do not let your stutter make your decisions for you!!! You're facing a lifetime of regretting avoiding this interview. They're goi...

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commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
1 points

It honestly depends. Sometimes i feel like they're listening to me and aren't uncomfortably trying to wrap this convo up. But sometimes it makes me feel liek a grown 6 year old....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 28, 2022
36 points

If I can't express myself than what am I good for?

If I can't express myself than what am I good for? I'm a university student who wanted to achieve high grades to prove to people that I'm smart and not dumb because I'm quite most of the time and stut...

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commentr/StutterApr 27, 2022
3 points

I believe in knowing one's limitations and relationships is certainly one for me. There are many requirements in life that I suffer through (my job, the phone, etc). Relationships are not a requireme...

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postr/StutterApr 25, 2022
13 points

how do you overcome the block type of stuttering?

how do you overcome the block type of stuttering? I have the pause and prolongation type of stuttering, the pausing is the one I struggle with the most though, to where when I try to say something I g...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2022
6 points

I wish, I had the courage like you when I was younger. I let my speech impediment hold me back during life. I was in the navy for four years. Got out because I couldn't see my self trying to lead with...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2022
9 points

Stuttering is a horrible disability. Stutterinģ is caused by a neurological defect. Many people with disabilities have low opions of themselves even though it is a physical problem. It is certainly...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2022
14 points

You are really brave. I wish I could be as brave as you. Stuttering has inhibited me since I was a child....

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2022
9 points

Don't be too hard on yourself on the isolating part. Its not exactly your fault. The world is tough for us, and every now and then, a subconscious defense mechanism gets activated in order to protect ...

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Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
postr/StutterApr 23, 2022
16 points

Life

Life hello all, i’ve been feeling very down recently i just feel like i haven’t achieved much in life and i feel that i won’t achieve much even as i grow older due to my mindset with my stutter. I say...

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postr/StutterApr 23, 2022
24 points

You can't be mean or authoritative when you are a stutterer

You can't be mean or authoritative when you are a stutterer I think I lost 2 things due to my stutter: * Being "mean" - I don't endorse mean / arrogant people, but I feel like I don't have the freedo...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2022
1 points

I haven’t really thought about Like that. Maybe I’ve been putting a lot of pressure on myself. I’m not really sure of what I could join, I’m gonna be looking into it though. Thanks for the reply...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency