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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2018
3 points

I’m a 20 year old woman and i stutter pretty bad and most guys(and girls) find it cute for some reason. The right girl for you won’t give a flying fuck about your stutter. If you shoot your shot and t...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2018
3 points

Let the girl know you stutter. It's a very small part of you, if you focus on your stutter so much in those situations you don't allow yourself to show the full you. Ive been in a relationship for ov...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2018
3 points

I'm stutter and girls I talked to think that's cute. Don't afraid to be different. I'm married and have kids now....

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2018
9 points

Shoot your shot! Stutter or no stutter you have to put yourself out there and I know it’s embarrassing and nerve racking at times but you being able to walk up to a girl or person in general and openl...

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postr/StutterOct 13, 2018
10 points

Question for people in relationships

Question for people in relationships How were you able to connect with someone? And what did you do in spite of your stutter? I'm in high school and I like this girl but I'm pretty fucking shy. I feel...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2018
7 points

Preface: This is not coming from a perspective of any gender having it 'easier' or 'harder'. This is just my experience as a woman who stutters, some downsides that maybe a lot of guys don't experienc...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2018
3 points

As a woman stutterer, it's pretty much the same?.. I beat myself over not being able to flirt effortlessly, ask men out, talk clearly on a date, etc. Women don't just sit around being pretty you know...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2018
2 points

me neither and if society wasn't so cruel i would find it pretty cool and sexy but that would be my bias i guess lol. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
1 points

We just met through mutual friends. We actually went to the same high school. She graduated a couple of years before me, but we never knew each other. I don't really have any advice for meeting girls....

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
1 points

idk if he stuttered the first time he talked to me properly but i imagine so. we sat in the same group table in a class and i initially overheard him talking to my friend and agreed with his opinion, ...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2018
3 points

I can't relate to drugs cuz every time i do my stutter is the same but yeah, i've been single for years now too and i just cant imagine a girl wanting to go out with me lol, who she gonna preffer? the...

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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2018
2 points

Yup same here It fucking blows.. It's all I can focus on now when i meet people. I wish normies realise how bad people with a stutter have it..like not being able to just meet someone spontaneously in...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

I have stuttered my entire life and I have never really had the courage to speak in public. I met my wife 3 years back and during our first date, i found out that she stutters as well. Ever since th...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
3 points

Your friend is conveying something that can be difficult but is important to remember: other people don't see stuttering as a big deal. It's not an impediment to friendships, relationships or any soci...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

Going straight into reporting as your first job is impressive! I used to scoot out of college classes a lot too, whenever the teachers interacted with the students. One of my friends noticed this a...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

I'm glad you've found peace with yourself, and had the courage to overcome your problem. You sound like a fantastic Dad too! I play guitar, so yeah that's one thing I love doing. I'd say I'm really ...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

Dude calm down. I use to feel the same way. My stutter is so severe when it gets out of hand that i can not even say a word. Im 31, have 3 babies, a beatiful wife, master degree, a decent job and a bu...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
4 points

Absolutely. Your path reminds me of my own but different ages. I was an extrovert as a kid and then suddenly became self-conscious at 12. Went straight down from there to rock bottom at 19, running ou...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

I disclosed it before we met. It really eased my anxiety on my dates. Nobody cares honestly. If anything I’ve been told stuttering is cute. Nobody will ever try to leave! If they do they’re a litera...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

I'm feeling some contradictions in your post. First you say you can't have conversations because of the stutter, but you also say you don't care that you stutter and have accepted it. So first I'd ask...

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