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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2021
5 points

Going in positive is better than going in negative, but It's an overly simplistic answer. Psychologists don't understand the depth and layers of stuttering so I generally wouldn't reply on them for sp...

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postr/StutterMar 12, 2021
7 points

Guys I was at the psychologist today and he told me that I have to face situations when I have to speak and always with positive thoughts, but I want to know this will help me? with stuttering if I deal with the situation is not that it will improve my stuttering right?

Guys I was at the psychologist today and he told me that I have to face situations when I have to speak and always with positive thoughts, but I want to know this will help me? with stuttering if I de...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
2 points

Oh, I understand. Yeah, I used to have that mentality but now I own it. Sure it does bother me but it happens. I have a call center job and I really try and put effort into putting myself out there...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
6 points

I think OP refers to the “I stutter and the world hates me and everyone should feel bad for me because of my disfluency” Own ur stutter bro, no one else will...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
6 points

Thank you for your words Wally. I made an edit to this post, but I wanted to mention that I love the sense of community here and I am realizing how much I need that. I have decided to leave him. Last ...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
2 points

I’m not surprise that some people got mad for that, although they should not. What I decided to do is to not talk about my stutter in my bio. I chat with them girls for a while (still not raising the ...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
2 points

While stuttering is indeed tough (especially in your teens), it can be also a great excuse for many things, including not socializing, making friends or building romantic relationships. Personally, I ...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
0 points

So dope to hear! As a 19 year old myself who has overcome their stutter as well- that is so sick to hear. A good break from all the negative posts where people just can’t get enough of playing the vic...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2021
1 points

If you are gonna sit relax wanting people to not criticize you on things. You're never gonna get better. Time evolves. However, things break to get better. You're keep gonna crushed by emotions until ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
6 points

I remember back in primary school the teacher was reading out the register and then he finally got to me I couldn't get my words what so ever. Half the class laughed at me and the teacher (fucking cun...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

Lol, you're explaining it to me? But maybe yes, some people just need to grow up and realize that they should mind their interests no matter what others think....

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

This may seem easy, but in action, especially around those who we know don't support our path to fluency and/or self-acceptance, is really hard. There's a reason some people go to speech-therapy for y...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
8 points

Hey! I remeber in 7th grade I was called on to read a paragraph out of our history text book. Couldn’t make it through the second sentence. That caused the teacher to email my mom and suggest I be put...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
11 points

It was so bad once upon a time that in alevels I could not even think of the word "stutter". I felt so much shame in just thinking about the word. So I feel that this is growth, that now I can tell ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
14 points

I know all the tricks. Put a different sound at the beginning of the word. Skip the sound you have difficulty with. Try saying it while exhaling. Stop trying to say it, and restart the word etc etc. I...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
3 points

I started not caring about it too a month ago and life is much more beautiful now, Im on the middle of the way tho, will get better too, at least I hope :D...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
1 points

I meant that a few years ago i was more confident about my stutter, it didn't stopped me from doing or saying things. Now i'm back at it again, i avoid situations where i think i'll stutter. Maybe bec...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
19 points

Yeah that’s how I stutter too, I hang on words here and there. Good job man, I stop caring what people think a long time ago and it changed my life completely....

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
1 points

Thanks for sharing man. Vulnerable. Self esteem is a huge factor and also your relationship with your stutter plays a massive factor. You said "you thought you were over this".. do you mean this c...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much for your reply! This is actually a very good tip. It takes a lot of confidence but it does work. I tried it with a couple new people I met today and felt less pressured to speak flue...

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