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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2023
10 points

You just have to find that right person, my ex used to call my stutter annoying then I broke up with her and my current GF doesn’t care about my stutter at all. You just have to put yourself out there...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2023
1 points

Nope. There are two positive sides: 1 You are utterly frustrated because you cannot express frustration as complexly as someone who does not stutter. So, write it down! Your words on paper are more i...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2023
1 points

I’m suprised that it’s actually very easy to understand what he is saying if you don’t focus on his stutter...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
1 points

Those first two paragraphs are exactly how I feel. I’ve never related more to a post on this sub lmao...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2023
2 points

Community and support 100%. If you're a young person in the United States, join Friends Who Stutter and Camp Say. Go to their events and their annual conferences. The NSA as well. Best thing you can d...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2023
2 points

How people react to your stutter will hurt less and less the more it happens...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2023
6 points

This is what I hated most in school. I could take mocking all day, but the pity was the worst. Even from people I was close to. It made me feel less than everyone else. Probably have too much pride (o...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2023
1 points

Thank you for the advice bro, I agree 100% with you, we need to break that habit of forcing through blocks. I'm glad that it gets easier with practice, thank you for your words, my friend. Wish you t...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2023
9 points

I think a lot of us have experienced this. And of course it’s annoying. But I wouldn’t stress about it too much. You can’t control what happens outside of your power. What you can control is how you’r...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2023
15 points

people being nice out of pity

people being nice out of pity Who else hates it when people are nice to you just because they feel bad for you because you stutter... Don't be nice to me just cos you feel bad or awkward Be nice be...

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postr/StutterMar 2, 2023
27 points

Stuttering is like…

Stuttering is like… Stuttering is like trying to ride a bike with one wheel. You look around and everyone else seems to have two wheels. Sure, some may be missing a pedal. Some may be missing a refle...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
1 points

I'm sorry to hear that you have had negative experiences with people who don't show you respect when you stutter. It's unfair and hurtful to be treated differently or condescended to because of a spee...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
1 points

I am so sorry this is how you feel =\[, no one with a good head on their shoulders would do this or purposely make you feel this way. I do not stutter, but i hope you know that this happens to a lot ...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
2 points

I can understand your pain and I am sorry that other people can be so hurtful. I have stuttered and suffered from blocks for my entire life. I have tried to learn to give people some benefit of the do...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
3 points

I had this same viewpoint all throughout highschool (and still sometimes now. Customer service jobs yanno) but my coworkers and my newfound group of friends don’t treat me like a freak or make me feel...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
1 points

It's completely understandable to feel frustrated or confused when people suggest that it's all in your head. Stuttering can have many different causes, and it's not always easy to pinpoint exactly wh...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

Yes, presenting the various roles, and allowing him to choose, is the most sensitive way. The stigma is removed if the various options are presented and free choice is allowed....

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

You are obviously a kind person to consider the feelings of your fellow group member. Every stutterer reacts differently. He might resent your offer to allow him a significant, though no speaking, rol...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
3 points

From personal experience, stuttering in the workplace can be daunting. you want to seem knowledgeable, confident, and friendly, but the stutter can make it come across as though you aren’t. That adds...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
1 points

Thank you so much! I agree so much with everything! I appreciate you taking the time to write it down. You are a great contribution to this community!...

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