It's completely understandable to feel frustrated or confused when people suggest that it's all in your head. Stuttering can have many different causes, and it's not always easy to pinpoint exactly what's going on. It's good that you're aware of when your stuttering tends to happen, like when you're reading out loud or practicing what you're going to say. Sometimes just recognizing patterns like these can help you find ways to manage your stuttering more effectively. As for the idea that processing speech in the same area of the brain where music is processed can help with stuttering, there is some research to suggest that this may be true for some people. But everyone is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. It's always a good idea to explore different approaches and see what feels most helpful for you. Remember that stuttering is a common issue and you're not alone. If you feel like your stuttering is interfering with your life in any way, it's always a good idea to speak with a speech therapist or other healthcare professional who can provide you with guidance and support. You can also join a free support group like the one I started as a first step - www.stutterfreely.com