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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
1 points

I don't edit out my stutters ......ever because my stutter is part of the package :)...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2021
11 points

Crushed my confidence. I’m over 40 now and my stutter is something that comes rarely now. Whether it’s age, all the therapy I went through, outlook on life or whatever, it’s improved. I can honestly ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2021
2 points

Exactly this. I work with my speech therapist on it all the time. Probably the most terrifying thing but trust me, it’s a gift to them and to you. They’ll feel more comfortable and so will you, and yo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2021
1 points

Thank you, thrw_awaybin, for voting on IamYodaBot. This bot wants to find the best and worst bots on Reddit. [You can view results here](https://botrank.pastimes.eu/). *** ^(Even if I don't reply t...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2021
3 points

Honestly I feel like an imposter even being on this sub. Like, I clearly stutter, just had a negative experience with it the other day, but I’ve managed to avoid sooo much of the emotional baggage tha...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2021
2 points

As a bald stammerer, my pearls of wisdom would be- 1) Shave that head, man. Own the baldness. Your self confidence will increase exponentially 2) No one cares more about your stammer than you. Own it...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2021
6 points

I believe the fear isn't so much of stuttering, but it's a fear of being judged negatively, being rejected etc. A huge breakthrough I've had with my speech is removing my perspective on my stutter f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterMay 22, 2021
5 points

Fear will go away

Fear will go away Hi all, I'd like to share a quick personal story about overcoming fear and "difficult" speaking situations. As a PWS I had tremendous fear of any type of meetings where I have to sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringMindset shiftHope & Motivation+3 more
postr/StutterMay 21, 2021
3 points

Eye gazing??

Eye gazing?? This lady Cindy was able to manage her stutter through eye gazing,very interesting stuff.I can understand this method because I’m usually a severe stutterer but few years ago,I started dr...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
6 points

As someone who has been on "the other side" of interviewing people quite often (meaning I interviewed them): Don't forget, that they are positive towards you. They invited you to an interview because...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2021
12 points

100%. I found it hard to talk to girls for obvious reasons. Similarly to you, I didn't get into a real relationship until I was in my early 20s. It's hard. I also missed out on a whole lot and regret ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 20, 2021
25 points

Think about it.

Think about it. We all have the right to feel down sometimes. We all have our reasons. Our main reason for it is that many of us feel trapped, like we can't achieve our goals because of our stutter. B...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2021
1 points

It's simply because of expression. Often when we are angry or lose our temper, we have the a sense of conviction. We in our minds know that we are right and a boundary was crossed from the other p...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMay 16, 2021
25 points

3 easily achievable tasks to complete that build conversational confidence

3 easily achievable tasks to complete that build conversational confidence Another value drop! Enjoy ❤ 3 easily achievable tasks to complete that boosts conversational confidence  What do I mean by ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2021
1 points

That's awesome! I don't want to use speech techniques anymore though :) I want to get jobs with a stutter and show people that we exists too...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2021
2 points

I stutter less when i am meeting somebody new and then it increases the more I get to know them. Kind of living up to my own self expectations....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2021
10 points

Yes, I definitely stutter more with my parents. This is a really common thing that worries people who stutter and their parents, so please read all of this: Most people stutter more when they are comf...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2021
3 points

This is partly why I stopped going to speech therapy. I was speaking fluently but I had lost all my personality in my speech, and it was really bumming out my family and friends. I've gotten to a poin...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2021
4 points

I think he has opened up about it more publicly than any other famous person already. Given his responsibility I don't think it would be prudent to dwell on personal matters that most of the populatio...

Identity & Disability
Public Awareness / MediaAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2021
2 points

Everything you said is right, I love the way you put that. It sounds a lot like if I were talking to Jordan Peterson haha. With that said, so much of what you said is right when it comes from an alr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride