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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2021
10 points

Visualisation, position affirmation. Visualise that you have a very good social behaviour. Visualise yourself that you are speaking with everyone fluently and believe you are a good speaker. Alway...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2021
11 points

Cognitive therapies are best choices for your sitations and yeah, you realized it not beneficial to try to control your nerves and that was great. To make story short, stutter is induced from brain d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringNeurological & BrainMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2021
6 points

in my experience when I try to control the nerves my stutter is worse!! when i calm relax and think about pernouncing the whole word slowly is when i can speak the best. Always remain confident, who c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
2 points

I’m trying to treat my stutter by forcing myself to NOT beat my self up mentally every time I stutter. I feel like this mindset is helping....

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
2 points

I also have this playlist on youtube that I've been working on now and then. [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ4nn2Q5PehMIiX6xSXv4sUeeFxh0hQgs](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ4nn2Q5PehMIiX6...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
2 points

The mindset to not dwell on the stutter and give much of a damn helped a lot, to really really not dwell on it at all, before, after, during, all of it! But it didn't help me realize how to fully con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterOct 26, 2021
12 points

Long reading (text) on how I got fluent, I tried to really cover all I went through and became aware of. If anyone is up for some casual reading, I am hoping it will give others a potential new perspective on our stutter.

Long reading (text) on how I got fluent, I tried to really cover all I went through and became aware of. If anyone is up for some casual reading, I am hoping it will give others a potential new perspe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterOct 26, 2021
17 points

Discussion on: How Alex was able to overcome his social anxiety, and how I was able to use this same mindset to no longer hide from my stutter

Discussion on: How Alex was able to overcome his social anxiety, and how I was able to use this same mindset to no longer hide from my stutter ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2021
4 points

I wouldn't call it a detox by itself, I just tried to limit the amount of stimulation in my brain to see what happens. I started by limiting the amount of time I spend on my phone, which include Reddi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2021
1 points

Stutter doesn't play a role in social bonds believe it or not. Confidence does. If you barely talk and stutter, no one will talk to you. This was me a few years ago. Now I'm the one who initiates the...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2021
3 points

I've just accepted it, the more I fear it the longer it will spend lingering on my mind and will make me more nervous. I quite like putting myself in situations where I have to speak to people just to...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
4 points

I agree the mental stutter can be like night/day the more your forget or think about less the smoother your speak but like you said easier said than done. The more you practice putting yourself in spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
7 points

You are most definitely overthinking it! But that’s ok. It’s understandable. We all can and have been guilty of over-thinking. For too long my very mild stutter held me back for years until I decided ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2021
4 points

We focus so hard trying not to stutter that we stutter. Think about that. You trying not to stutter is causing the stuttering… catch22 Just have to learn to let it go. If you stutter just stutter. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
1 points

Fake confidence can turn into real confidence, if you succeed at this at the start on the presentation you have pretty much nailed the rest(it's a bit of a gamble but is great when it works) Also try...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
1 points

I had a marketing job when I was in my teens and had to make presentations all the time. It was tough but I got through it. Biggest thing I feel, personally, is confidence. Don’t psych yourself out an...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Mindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

I also felt that like that person. Kid with a stutter (which I tried to hide), coupled with other physical traits that weren’t the norm did not make a good combination. But I reached the stage where I...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
3 points

I wouldn’t have my gorgeous wife and beautiful daughter. I probably wouldn’t have over-come confidence issues since I stopped giving two fucks about my stutter around 15 years old (along with everythi...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
1 points

Oh I love British Stammering Association very much because not only are their pathologists and linguisticists doing researches on their own but also they are not just plagiarizing researching results ...

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Research & ResourcesMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
4 points

The biggest realization I've had in my journey to overcoming stuttering is that.. 👉 I can already express myself effortlessly. When I'm in a room by myself or with people I am very very comfortabl...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift