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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2019
4 points

I know it's hard as shit, but most women are more understanding than you think when it comes to a stutter. In my experience it's more about what you say than how you say it...

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postr/StutterNov 30, 2019
2 points

Unable to break the ice.

Unable to break the ice. Today was exam day, a hot girl was sitting besides me, I tried so hard to converse with her before the exam, but noooo, just couldn't do it. Why it's so hard for me to start a...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2019
2 points

I am a woman who stutters and I can assure you this is the same for us. Nobody wants an awkward stuttering girlfriend....

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2019
1 points

This person is exactly right. I’m 33 so seeing the rise of texting in high school was a godsend. But beyond that everything is moving to apps. And I mean EVERYTHING. It’s coming to the point you can d...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
1 points

Lol stuttering helps if anything unless I guess confidence but most girls imo think it’s cute...

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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2019
4 points

As a fellow stutterer and a not so good looking guy too (23M)... confidence my dude. I've strugled with confidence a lot (still do, even when I just got a new girlfriend), when I started to workout ...

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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2019
3 points

I always let them know beforehand. Some lose interest right away, others are up for dating. The right person sees through the stutter....

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2019
3 points

>Even despite my desperate attempts I’m not sure “despite” is an accurate word here my man. Women are like bloodhounds, they can smell desperation from a mile away, and they stay as far away from ...

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postr/StutterNov 24, 2019
3 points

How did you guys get into relationships ?

How did you guys get into relationships ? Even despite my desperate attempts , i cant get into any meaningful relationships with the opposite sex . Im 18M and still havent been in any relationships. A...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
1 points

It's hard, there's no doubt. Online dating has been the easiest way for me. I can use it to get to know a girl and show my personality that I wouldn't be able to show on a first date. I also always te...

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postr/StutterNov 15, 2019
8 points

An older stutter-er

An older stutter-er 27M as someone who stutters with blocks mostly, feeling outta breath in between words. And having difficulty with vowels. How do you guys deal with the dating world? I have a very ...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

as a stutterer its hard to be the one always iniciating a conversation.If you were standing there and she didnt say hello or ask any question or try to start a conversation ,she either isnt interested...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

Yes. If a girl cant accept your stutter, she's not the one. Thats a good way of thinking. How old are you? Where do you live? :)...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
2 points

Great :D Just pray! xD I have a girlfriend and kids so Im in the clear. Dating is the worst part of being a stutterer. I think you should break the ice immediatly and tell her that you stutter....

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

Ill check it out. Btw I messaged that girl but she hasnt read it yet so now its a matter of waiting...

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postr/StutterNov 9, 2019
16 points

Possibly my most embarrassing moment yet.

Possibly my most embarrassing moment yet. So I’m in high school and I went to a big important football game with my friend. I saw this girl who’s in the grade below me and she’s really cute. So she st...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2019
1 points

There are naturally those types of people that I immediately feel free with. They are few and far between for me, but it’s like something switches and all of a sudden we have so much to talk about. I ...

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postr/StutterNov 4, 2019
9 points

Stuttering in your wedding vows?

Stuttering in your wedding vows? Hello all! I’ve been a long time lurker on this sub. I think the support you give each other is wonderful. I’m in need of some now. I recently got engaged to my boyfri...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
13 points

There are so many things to unpack here. 1. Your discomfort with her speech: that doesn't make you a bad person, it just makes you an unaccepting person at this time. Can you change, yes. should you ...

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postr/StutterOct 29, 2019
6 points

28M went on a date in arranged setup

28M went on a date in arranged setup The person is nice, i happen to notice she stutters a bit. I have got only two encounter with her and from what i could tell she speaks properly bit slow. She did...

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