>Even despite my desperate attempts I’m not sure “despite” is an accurate word here my man. Women are like bloodhounds, they can smell desperation from a mile away, and they stay as far away from it as they can. Stuttering doesn’t help the situation, I’ve certainly found that out first hand. But there’s a lot you can do aside from that. You say you’re ugly. Maybe that’s true, maybe it isn’t. But I know for a fact you can improve your appearance. Better grooming, dressing better, etc. Confidence will also get you a long way. Good luck.