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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2021
2 points

Disclosure is almost always the best option. Helps you not feel like you’re keeping a secret, helps put other people at ease but letting them know you aren’t, say, drunk, or otherwise incapacitated....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 13, 2021
4 points

How to handle job interview??

How to handle job interview?? 1. Should I come clean before the start of the interview that i stutter 2.Or Should I let them figure it out by themselves. I always Tried to hide that i stutter and th...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
postr/StutterAug 11, 2021
9 points

Thinking of creating a support group/info page for my local community

Thinking of creating a support group/info page for my local community So, I've stuttered since childhood, aprox. since 9-10 years old (I'm 25 now), felt mostly alone in this because I know very few pe...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterAug 10, 2021
30 points

Does your personality suffer when you're in a stuttering state?

Does your personality suffer when you're in a stuttering state? I used to honestly think that it wasnt possible to be happy when I stuttered.. Everytime I used to stutter it would absolutely deflate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
3 points

The toughest thing a stutterer can do is pretend they are perfect speakers. Sometimes we fail and get laughed at and that is what we have to deal with. Be positive. We can talk (sometimes) we can se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
9 points

This happened to me for the first time in a long time at the doctors office the other day when I was asked my birthday. I just said, very casually, deadpan and matter of fact, “I have a stutter, somet...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
2 points

Hey, I’m sorry to hear about your experience growing up in school...I do believe though, that working backwards and tackling anxiety and depression, and bringing peace to every traumatic experience wi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

Wow I was same until I just stopped speaking to my family all together because “stuttering” was always the topic. So no speaking meant no stuttering. If my dad asked me a question I’d say “sorry I’m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

I think at around age 17 I just completely stopped responding to people who acknowledged my stutter. If my dad asked me a question I’d just say “sorry I’m stuck on a word” he’d say “which one” and I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
2 points

It is difficult but like others are saying, don’t try to hide it. I would really suggest stuttering on purpose, and then disclose and tell them you stutter. Start off by stuttering a little to get the...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
21 points

Took me a while to realise that other people really couldn't care less about my stutter. You're just another person passing through their life and you got your quirks like anybody else. Some people ha...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
3 points

I'd say something which would not be popular choice lol I had to go to new schools alone so when i went there, i just tried to hide my stutter. Now in my case hiding my stutter made me more comfortab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
2 points

Taught me to be more respectful with the other around me. Unfortunately only for others, and not for myself, all the positive experiences I had for situations, went wrong and it cost me to think more ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
1 points

Totally get you, I would have wished for more understanding parents but now that I look back that made me cold hearted and in some ways it's good and I generally keep to myself, don't speak unless spo...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 7, 2021
8 points

Moving to a big city soon and I’m extremely nervous

Moving to a big city soon and I’m extremely nervous So I’m moving to a big city for university, not knowing anyone there. Literally my main, if not only concern is my stutter and how it will be receiv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
1 points

My take on this 👇 This was amazingly said.  Martina spoke nothing but the truth here. Having something as painful and apparent as a stutter can be.. This really gives us really no choice but to...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
19 points

If by avoid you mean hiding it on purpose, you don't. As difficult as it may be just be yourself and do not try to hide it. Years down the road you will be much happier about the way you feel about ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
3 points

We have become excellent listeners not by choice. But it’s one of our best traits and people like that. Stuttering doesn’t define you as a person it’s just how you talk. You think clear thoughts and...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
2 points

Taught me how important fluent speech is in society and what an impact it can have in your life Taught me how to be someone I didn’t want to be...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 5, 2021
9 points

Does your stutter get better when switching to other languages?

Does your stutter get better when switching to other languages? I know it sounds weird, and I'm probably not "an official stutter" but hear me out. I never, in my entire life had any stutter issues (...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking