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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
3 points

Not much to inform when my stutter is so apparent that I can't really hide it anymore like I used to, so no point in trying to hide it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
4 points

When I joined current company I'm working for I didn't tell HR but the Bosses I'm working under. I see absolutely no problem telling them. For me, it's big relief when they know because there is no n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
2 points

My current employer don’t even know I have stutter. I plan to tell them but I’m afraid to open up with them. I’m kinda uncomfortable when they are waiting for me to speak since I paused for like 5 se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
3 points

I’d have a general attitude where you’re open about it as much as possible. I am 38 and hide mine, which makes things much harder....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
7 points

In my experience as an adult.. no one cares about my stutter. Most people dont care unless it effects them.. its in our heads that people care about it. Many times I've been stuck stuttering and apolo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
2 points

I stuttered for 70 years and I can attest that stuttering was much worse than any side effect. I was given Abilify, an atypical antipsychotic. I also was undergoing psychotherapy. My stuttering total...

Meds & SubstancesTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesTherapy ExperiencesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
2 points

There is currently a larger study being conducted at NIH. The sample size is appropriate and the double-blind nature may give a definitive answer. Medication might not be the answer to all stuttering,...

Meds & SubstancesTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesTherapy ExperiencesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
3 points

Thank you again, Obvious. Giving hope to stutterers about Dr. Maguire’s research is very important. I was given an atypical antipsychotic, Abilify, and with psychotherapy, my stuttering ended. I'll ne...

Meds & SubstancesTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesTherapy ExperiencesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
1 points

I’m writing this to let you know that you are not alone. I recently visited my relatives and they started asking me about my school/career. There were long pauses between each of my words and I had to...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
11 points

It’s because you don’t want to stutter in front of people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 3, 2023
29 points

I cleared 3 interviews and got into a university for my masters

I cleared 3 interviews and got into a university for my masters This is not a rant. I am proud of myself but I am scared too. My high school and my undergraduate studies were good. I rarely had any em...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
4 points

When I was younger, I would do anything I could to keep my stuttering a secret, or divert attention away from it. I would gladly take on any other labels or perceptions about myself; slow, stupid, q...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 3, 2023
13 points

I hate to see my stutter as the 'elephant in the room'

I hate to see my stutter as the 'elephant in the room' Several people actually revered to my stutter as the elephant in the room. I don't want it to be this big thing. Actually, letting people know I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJun 2, 2023
11 points

Frustration dump. (I know I’m not the only one who goes through this stuff, just consider this a venting post)

Frustration dump. (I know I’m not the only one who goes through this stuff, just consider this a venting post) I have to more or less scope my hobbies out based on my speech. I tried golf and do enj...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
1 points

I'm not sure you'll get one. This method seems largely about forgetting stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 2, 2023
13 points

Interview with severe Stuttering

Interview with severe Stuttering I 21M recently went to several interviews and I was acing the questions but I would stutter on every word an I would look at the person face an I see like a face with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterJun 2, 2023
15 points

Eye contact enemy #1

Eye contact enemy #1 It’s gotten so bad. I’m at such a low point I don’t know how to pull myself out of it. I can’t even look my girlfriend in the eyes when I talk. I hit a block and instantly close...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2023
2 points

Yeah this is pretty much me. Speech therapy hasn't done much for me, and I'm wondering if it's because even though I've been working hard and practicing my instinct is still to never speak unless I ab...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2023
7 points

Yes, been in practice for over 30 years. Intervention pain management. I recall being super stressed in med school… almost like I was hiding some terrible secret , less so in anesthesiology residency ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2023
3 points

My experience is identical to yours, so speech therapy never had a chance to work. I had good parents but we didn't talk much about stuttering, and I was ashamed of it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentTherapy Experiences