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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2021
2 points

First of all, thank you for this post. I'm glad you had a supportive circle of friends when presenting and congrats on continuing to your masters degree (welcome to the club - I have a Masters degree...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
2 points

You can also disclose this information at the beginning of the interview too. “Before we start I’d like to let you know that I have a stutter, which means sometimes I repeat sounds, words, phrases and...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
4 points

First of all, you should be proud that you took the interview and that you received positive feedback from the interviewer. I don’t think that you bombed the interview if that was the case. Does the r...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
1 points

This right here is a good answer. One of the mistakes I made earlier on is not to tell my interviewer that I have a stutter....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

You’re Welcome, if you ever want to talk or just vent let me know. I always felt that sometimes it’s through the tension and discomfort that we grow.. which is why change is so uncomfortable in some r...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
3 points

If the girl is as amazing as you claim she is, then something like a stutter shouldn’t be a dealbreaker between your friendship or even relationship with them. And the same can apply to your friends. ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling OthersFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
4 points

Good to see stammering being talked about on the BBC. This was a feature on tonight’s (11/01/21) 6pm BBC news. Felicity Baker - BBC Producer, talks about her stammer. Worth a watch if you need to be i...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Public Awareness / MediaDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
2 points

Really interesting question ! I cannot speak for him, because each stutterer and relation with a stutter is different. But I can still give you a point of view of a stutterer : On my side, I will f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
4 points

I met my boyfriend in a gc that had a lot of mutual friends. He’s never really said anything about my stutter. I don’t remember him ever making fun of it, and he’s never completed a sentence before I ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
4 points

Not in finance, but I'm an engineer, which requires a lot of talking via meetings and phone calls with suppliers and whatnot. One thing I can recommend is to be upfront about your stutter in the inter...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2021
1 points

Yes, I also give them examples. So, I say "just wanted to let you know I have a stutter so that's why I may block or take longer to respond or repeat words"...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2021
1 points

Hey :) Thanks for checking in. I am still training lol but I have been doing good. Having the scripts really helps and I have disclosed my stutter to some co-workers :)...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
7 points

I recently joined the USMC with a stutter, and when I first got to Parris Island my stutter was so bad during receiving they pulled me off to the side.. down a long corridor to an office where I had a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2021
6 points

As a doctor, having to call a family member to give updates or ask about information is like Russian roulette for that reason alone. I always take my time and go slow and as clear as I possibly can an...

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Stress & Fight/FlightSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2021
12 points

Not funny but a wierd situation: At my first job, I had a manager who had this very very mild stammer. Every once in a long while he would stammer on a random word. I didn't know then and also he was...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
2 points

It def has affected me in a way that I think most other law students wouldn’t understand. Like my peers just have to worry about being prepared but I have to worry about being prepared AND being able ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
1 points

I'm currently in a coms class and I was worried at first but honestly, it helps me more to participate. It normalizes the idea that some people have stutters. But that's how I approached it. I did how...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
1 points

One option is just going up to them and explaining how it makes you feel. Usually when a teacher actually sees me struggle to speak while talking in person they believe it is more than me just trying ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
1 points

Are you learning English as a language or studying something in English? If you're learning the language I recommend letting the instructor know as soon as you can. I'm leaning French for work and i...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
2 points

Like @nukefudge said, just be open and direct. I waited until college to tell my instructors about my impediment and wish I had done so much, much sooner....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others