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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

When I was in grade school, other kids sometimes called me retarded. I had really bad “secondaries” that twisted me into knots. They were just grade school kids. Can’t blame them for not knowing what ...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Stigma & BullyingPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

Kids at my school used to be surprised when I could read in front one or two of them but couldn't read in front of the whole class. Even I was among top 5 in grades , they legit though that I didn't...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

Some but not all people believe that, I've primarily have blocks/prolongations and have seen people. Straight up freak out, from not knowing how to react...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

Yes alot of people who don't know we stutter think we are retarded unfortunately. And even some people who don't know what stuttering is think it's either your scared or retarded...for me its a realit...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

When I try to talk I often get a look like people think I'm slow or something or wonder what on earth is wrong with me. I get treated like that a lot....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 20, 2023
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Do they think we are retarded?

Do they think we are retarded? This has happened at least twice. One time this kid at school, two grades lower than me, straight up gave me a pen and paper and told me to write a sentence. I wrote it ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

Yes, it's true. You can't take it lightly when it naturally messes up your life and the only cure for it is avoidance, which is worse, much worse. And support groups are essentially useless even those...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

Agreed. It's always been obvious that somehow having a stutter, it's impossible not to face various kinds of discrimination. Moreover, I always doubt that there are any stutterers who have "changed th...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2023
1 points

You have many true or false points, in my opinion. I don't think there are more good people than bad in the world. But since this is not a very relevant discussion to this sub, I don't need to delve ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
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> In my opinion people who dont have stutters dont know what the hell they're tryna say anyway. You really wanna be like THEM? On what basis did these conclusions arise? That's not true btw....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
1 points

I encounter some bad people on Brazil, it’s exception tho. I think there are bad people everywhere, we have to accept it and tell them to fuck off....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
1 points

You remind me my of early days. I used to be very successful online, but not that much in real life. It worked well for me in the end, as I’m now happily married. I truly understand your bitterness m...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDating & RomanceStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Yes I get you now …. I would suggest trying to build a deeper connection before you meet then. My SO is the one who stutters, and I was quite shocked when I saw him go into a full block. I didn’t know...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Do you think you get ghosted by the way you look or your speech? If it’s your speech than …. I would definitely clue them in of your condition. Being ghosted because you didn’t look up to par of someo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Don’t talk to girls on dating apps for weeks. Ask for drinks/coffee almost immediately. You can even disclose that you have a stutter, just don’t waste your time “trying to get to know each other” thr...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2023
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Def, def the Netherlands. I rarely encounter bad people, everyone knows what a stutter is and they have patience. Not a lot of people know what a block is though (and the fact that is part of stutteri...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
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I've stuttered for all my life so far and I know how it feels. In school, I always have one of the same two reactions two my stutter. One: They treat me like I can't be smart because of my stutter, an...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
1 points

Yeah like wth, life already got us down now we gotta fight with each other? Every stammerer i met in real life are kool people. Idk why people are so negative here...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
1 points

This is the only REAL comment here. Lol I don't interact here anymore because people want to bring you down or compete. It's so odd....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2023
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The thing that made me question him is, in one of his videos, he said he has just a single story about stuttering as a kid. One story? Me and most of us have dozens of stories of facing humiliation, c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying