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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2021
2 points

Definitely agree with disclosure as a possible strategy. It’s also good to be openminded about asking for any other kind of work-arounds or accommodations. Like doing part of the interview in written ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2021
4 points

This is the first post on Reddit I also suffer from stuttering Try to enjoy life and do what makes you happy Read books aloud Do exercises every day to gain self-confidence Admit you're stutterin...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2021
4 points

I would suggest that you disclose your stutter to your interviewers so they are aware. I'm also 22, and I just landed a job as a software engineer. I don't think I would've gotten the job if I didn't ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2021
2 points

I hear you. I do private corner phone calls ALL the time! As for being a parent - when you become one - it will come naturally. You will want to pass on your values and build character in the childr...

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Employment & CareerHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2021
2 points

If the person brings up the speech impediment, don’t say something like “that’s ok.” I feel that it’s better to just say “ok.” When I tell people that I stutter, I’m not apologizing or looking for va...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
2 points

Not all stutters are alike and are at different levels of comfort with their disability. Some don’t want want to acknowledge it, some really want to address the elephant in the room so they can move o...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
6 points

If he's already at ease about it, you don't need to do anything. ;) But if it turns out over the course of time that he's somehow not at ease about it, you could suggest a conversation of some sort. ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
5 points

Similar age and I'm in the same boat. I've never tried because I was afraid of blocking and screwing up. I think the best course of action is to just be upfront about it. They'll find anyway so you ma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2021
3 points

They never really make fun of me, but like at my unit we do roll call everyday and almost every day I tend to stutter during the roll call shouting “I’m here”. Sometimes I get laughed at or when we ha...

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Stigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
3 points

>On the other hand i read and write much more because of it and I’ve never been afraid to speak my mind. So many others talk completely fine but never dare speak what they really feel or think. I ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
1 points

Honestly it’s really whatever you’re comfortable with. I’m 22 and have stuttered all of my life and I’ve have numerous jobs from being a lifeguard, factory work, front desk reception. Your stutter tru...

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Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
2 points

Wow that’s amazing, i’m happy your parents were so supportive! I’ll definitely try not to avoid my stutter when i’m talking to them and hopefully will tell them soon...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
1 points

In my case, Im 15 years old and 2 weeks ago I told them, they noticed that I was slow to talk, but they didnt really know, they felt some guilt but its normal for any problem, dont worry Talking with...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHome SupportFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
1 points

If there's an elephant in the room, _you need to talk about the elephant_. This concerns your mental health. :)...

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
1 points

thank you so much. i feel like my stuttering is just an elephant in the room and they don’t really acknowledge it but the main reason why i don’t tell them is because i know they’ll just blame it on t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
1 points

If you feel like your parents would be supportive, my advice would be to talk to them about your problem Tell them how much it affects you, and practice with them. Pick a book or something to read an...

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Home SupportDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
2 points

Disclose your stuttering at the beginning; that way no one is surprised. Believe it or not, you’ll be more relaxed. Try this: “A quick heads up; some of you know that I stutter, and the rest of you ju...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
1 points

Alright. This may seem like a silly question, but - what's the hindrance, then? It's not a secret that you stutter, and you can take your time with it. Sounds like you're in a good spot to make the pr...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2021
2 points

I had the same fears going in, but I informed the examiner of my stutter just before the speaking test and he was so cool about it. It will be you and the examiner alone in a room with no external pre...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2021
1 points

Glad to hear that you've had positive results with this. Saying that you stutter at the beginning gives you the upper hand. It's like you took the power and strength that not admitting had over you. ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & MotivationMindfulness & Breathing