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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
2 points

Guys tell me that it’s cute all the time, but I have a hard time believing that not everyone sees me as a problem. I’m just really insecure about it, but that’s something I’m gonna have to work on. Fo...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

I’ve had guys tell me that they think my stutter is cute. I just have a hard time believing that other people don’t have a problem with it, let alone find it cute. But that’s my own insecurities talki...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
2 points

I’d find a girl cute if she stuttered. Perhaps just tell him straight forwardly?...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
10 points

As a 21yr old Male who has had several girlfrienda😎 the best thing you can do is just tell him. If he is as great as you say he is then he is not going to care, and if it is a deal breaker then he's...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
6 points

(21M, moderate? dating experience) I deal w mostly blocks as well and every partner I've had either didnt mind my stutter or thought that it was "cute". and since he likes you, more than likely, you'l...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
13 points

I (16F) don't have a lot of dating experience either, but I would suggest FaceTiming him or calling him (if you have his phone number) first. If he loses interest because of your stuttering, then I'm ...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
2 points

Ya I alias FaceTime girls first! Kinda helps with awkward silences (if there is any) and getting to know them in a smoother way through FaceTime. Then if you’re stuck in an awkward pause, you don’t ha...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

I've found opening up about my stutter has been so freeing in relationships and it sounds like you are already comfortable speaking to him, so if you feel comfortable maybe talk to him a little more a...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

honestly thank you so so so much. i want to tell him i’m nervous but i don’t want him to feel nervous, if that makes sense? or make things more awkward by telling him i’m nervous? but thank you so muc...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

I think we need to try to downgrade your mind from a Ferrari to a Corolla (in speed:)). It seems like you're suffering from some huge levels of overthinking, anxiety and insecurity. But look at it fro...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
8 points

Oh boy I know how you feel. I don’t really have great advice for you. A little liquid courage helps though. Or a lot....

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postr/StutterJun 13, 2020
25 points

a first date next week... help. please.

a first date next week... help. please. so hear me out. i’ve been talking to a guy i matched with on tinder for ten months. and we still haven’t met... yes i know. eek. basically, i have really bad an...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
1 points

I'm actually the same lol. My reason is that I'm afraid that a cute guy might think I'm weird if I stutter in front of him, which ends up with me stuttering even more....

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
1 points

Since I was opposed to marrying till I was older (parents and grandparents divorced so didnt want to marry the wrong guy), I have had much experience in my 20 years of dating (16-38 years old). Finall...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
4 points

I think you shouldn't mention it. When I used tinder I had no matches when I stated that I stutter but after I deleted that sentence I got a fair share. However, I didn't go on a date because it reall...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
4 points

Yeah it’s a great outlet and a place to commiserate with others...not many like us out there. It’s not very severe, I can usually control it and, definitely a “covert” stutterer. As far as dating, I’m...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2020
3 points

Glad you found us, this subreddit is my go to source of comfort! How severe is your stutter? And how has it affected your dating life?...

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postr/StutterJun 10, 2020
9 points

Dating with a stutter

Dating with a stutter Like many people I use dating apps. A lot of singles don’t like approaching random men/women and asking them out, so the apps help with that along with avoiding possible face to ...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2020
30 points

Yeah, just wait for a couple months from now when we have our first argument. Then see how you feel about it....

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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2020
2 points

I feel you, some people are just mean. Shoot your shot it’s never over until you no as an answer!!!...

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