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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2020
2 points

In my (14M) experience, girls are generally less judgemental. They usually don't have the toxic masculine one-up mentality that some guys have, so this could be why. Just my experience, though....

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

I hate that when applying to jobs, I have specifically avoided companies whose names are hard to say.. I wonder how many opportunities I've missed because of it. I'm also so scared to have kids.... wh...

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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
1 points

This makes me so happy to read that the conversation went well! This can be a really difficult conversation to have, but it really shows you who the other person is! I remember having this conversatio...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
1 points

Get your texts and photos really good. Get photos with you hanging with friends, doing cool things, and traveling. No selfies. Frame the stuttering in your bio as one little quirk about you that make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
5 points

I met my boyfriend of 2 years on a dating app. I’ve also gone on many tinder dates. I always mention my stutter before I go on a date (my stutter is mild so I can kind of get away with being fluent). ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
1 points

I revealed my stutter to my boyfriend after a few months of us talking after meeting on tinder. At first I thought it might mess things up if we met up and he saw that I had one, and so i kept canceli...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

Honestly just bring it up when you guys are feeling a connection. It works the best and it doesn't surprise her while you're dating. Also why are you going for long distance dating? Just wondering bec...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
3 points

I hear that. Well, it sounds like she's already interested, so I'd share it whenever it feels right. It can be initially scary to open up to people, but if the people are cool, it can be rewarding. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
1 points

I have it in my profile, but I basically wait until we have rapport and I can tell she's digging me and then I bring it up again....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
10 points

I am so stuck on doing that though. With online dating, the initial phase is super shallow. Itis just based on looks and your profile. If I put I stutter on the profile, I don't see why any girl with...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
6 points

How severe is it? Like many of us, I'm pretty good at word-switching and a lot of my friends don't know I stutter. I pretty much only tell me close friends because it's mostly an internal struggle. I'...

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Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
5 points

personally i have a very hard time talking to people about my stutter. it’s not that severe but still something that definitely bothers me and gives me a lot of anxiety when it comes to dating. I have...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterJun 24, 2020
17 points

When to reveal stutter to a girl I met on a dating app?

When to reveal stutter to a girl I met on a dating app? So I been talking to this girl I met on this dating app. She lives somewhat far from me (2hr30min flight). We been texting back and forth on the...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
2 points

the ratio of Male to female stutterers is 4:1. so it's not surprising that u haven't. tbh I haven't met a female stutterer too(other than me ofc). I have never been able to tell sm1 that I I like them...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
1 points

I think you might want to try online dating. It eliminates the fear of having to walk up and approach a stranger, especially if you have a stutter like we do. I would chat online for awhile, then ment...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2020
2 points

I have a beautiful girlfriend that has been there for me every step of the way, she calms me down when I get frustrated, she relaxes me and I can talk way better, and as a plus she finds it cute. It’s...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

I am a girl who stutters but in my experience I found that guys who stuttered would ask me out quickly and maybe even with more confidence than the fluent speaker. I did go on one date with one of the...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

Spent my early 20s smashing everything in sight until I met my wife. So.. I wouldn’t think so? Also.. obligatory r/ihavesex...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

Ive dated 2 girls in the past and both were overwhelmingly accepting of my stutter and very understanding. They wouldn’t ever bring it up to me, but anytime I felt frustrated about my stutter, they wo...

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

Having a girlfriend since one year, never asked me about my stutter. Have you already experienced that too ? What is the feeling of your girlfriend/boyfriend regarding your stutter ?

Having a girlfriend since one year, never asked me about my stutter. Have you already experienced that too ? What is the feeling of your girlfriend/boyfriend regarding your stutter ? Hi ! I am with m...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance