I am so stuck on doing that though. With online dating, the initial phase is super shallow. Itis just based on looks and your profile. If I put I stutter on the profile, I don't see why any girl with good intentions would want to match. However, if you message first and try to show her your a cool guy, then she might not care you stutter. Do you see what I am saying? Superficially why date someone with a stutter? But if you see there a human first through text, there is an increased chance of it working.