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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

I'm not down I'm just mind tired. And me training to be a navy seal will lead me too disappointment. Even u know that...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
2 points

Nope that's shit advice. It's ok to accept you have a stutter it's OK to shrug off how other people treat you. It's not ok to believe you can't get better, to give up on trying. You got dreams you wan...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

A severe stutter is crippling; the stutter itself is one thing, but that subhuman feeling you have because you can't do a basic human gesture is another. Great we can agree on this...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

I don’t want to dismiss how you are feeling but I will share something that just popped into my brain reading this thread. Aren’t we lucky in a sense that we can decide to be mute or not? I just got o...

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Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

Lol, what are you, a moron? You need to be able to speak and communicate efficiently to be a navy seal. Blind optimism is what causes people like OP to end up roping themselves....

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
2 points

Holy shit, You're quite literally like me. I'm 17 and wanted to be a navy seal VERY badly, I can't though because of you know what....

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
4 points

What do you think, for a person who has from time to time really severe blocks that are mentaly destrying me, would be a text to speech app in these situations a good option? I could image I would st...

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Assistive DevicesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

tf u mean "you're too young to be bitter" "RoLl wiTh tHe puNcHes" bih i had to practice years in front of the mirror just to say my own name, cant roll with the punches with that... i had to drop out ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

I am 34 and have had many ups and downs in my life, many embarrassing moments, some job opportunities lost bc of my stutter. We got dealt an unfair card. No one’s arguing that. That said, you’re proba...

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postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
23 points

Wow your best advice is to just "Shrug it off".

Wow your best advice is to just "Shrug it off". Yeah too bad you cant talk to people, or speak a foreign language good, or get your dream job. Better to just accept it than get a mental illness over i...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Sure stuttering sucks but get over urself ur rly pessimistic we all get made fun of stuttering is bad but it's not worth it to end ur life bcz of it life is fun enjoy it...

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Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
7 points

Yeah man, I don't think I would have been okay with that. I also don't think I'm in the right mind for support.... I get militant. I'm sorry you had to deal with that....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
13 points

It was fine until I felt demoralized when the interviewer asked if I passed out cards to people to let them know i stuttered. Then I felt helpless after that....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

I think you may be misunderstanding what we mean when we say "accepting". You may be thinking it means "just live with your stutter and you can do anything an abled person could do!", but part of "acc...

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Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Sometimes I think it's better to become mute at all than to face every day a strong fear and unknowing what awaits you and where your broken speech will let you down again. Sick and tired of this

Sometimes I think it's better to become mute at all than to face every day a strong fear and unknowing what awaits you and where your broken speech will let you down again. Sick and tired of this ...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

I can’t control mine. Mine is a strange one because I’m not bad around my friends but I really struggle speaking to my parents and strangers. So I’d say it’s moderate. I can’t control mine, I don’t ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
8 points

Serious questions

Serious questions I understand that I need to 1000% accept my stutter and realize that it's ok to stutter, In order to make my speech more fluent. But all that accepting and optimism falls face flat o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Keep trying optimism isnt the answer either you dont need to be happy u need to understand that stuttering is a disability and it will. Be there everytime u talk....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Stuttering changes a person's life and not for the better in my experience. I've been a life long stutterer and it simply sucks....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
3 points

How are you going to ignore your possible employ, friends and life partner? It's like alright am I gonna skip through everyone?...

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