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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
23 points

this after seeing your post story seems concerning, don't do anything bad man. hope you are alright, I'm sure a lot of people on this sub had moments when they were extremally fed up (including me). d...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationFrustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
2 points

Worse things? Can you elaborate on that? What kind of worse things people out there do have? Also, in my defense I tried to ask if they had a problem, which only made the situation more awkward and w...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
11 points

It’s even worse when they complain in front of you, like my friend was nervous about having a girl over the other night because he didn’t know what he was gonna speak about and I just couldn’t for the...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
6 points

I know that what we should do in case we're trying to speak but can't. But I just hate when someone tells me to do it, I kow you have good intentions but god damn it I know I have to do that sometimes...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2020
5 points

I'm still thinking. It's just "the-" super easy to say mouth, we've said it a thousand times before. Everyone's waiting now. But there's also a lot of frustration, often regret about having opened my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2020
1 points

Yeah, i noticed that i am doing that, when the company phone rings, i just ignore it and then say it's broken probably, after few calls that i wasn't able to say anything and the other time just some ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
2 points

I feel your pain. I stutter too sometimes it's terrible sometimes it's mild depending on the weather (terrible in cold weather) and depends on who I'm talking to also. I live deep in Africa (southern ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Environmental TriggersSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2020
10 points

Dear u/dhavalr786, normally I don't comment on posts. But I feel you.. It hurts, you feel so alone. I can make a whole paragraph ..no.. a book on how shitty it is. But please try and keep socializing...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2020
1 points

Kind of late to the post, but just wanted to add if you guys ever get into a fight, please try your best not to say anything bad or make fun of his stutter. My mom and an ex did that to me. Whenever w...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
3 points

Shoot, takes decent amount of confidence to even speak. People nowadays are just oblivious to what a stutter is and don’t care about learning about it and how it makes us feel when they loose patience...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
6 points

I hate when people just loose patience and like you said, when they cut you off and talk about something else. They don’t understand that even thought they are my friends it still takes a decent amoun...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Listener ReactionsFrustration & AngerPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
3 points

You reacted the most natural way possible so it’s fine. I’m sure your non ignorant friends will get it. I would’ve done the same. It’s just so frustrating that people take advantage of the fact that y...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Listener ReactionsFrustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
4 points

I had lots of breakdowns. I can relate. I can also see how your mom calling your stutter "interesting" can feel almost humiliating. Truth is its not. Your stutter is not a bad thing. But its impossi...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2020
9 points

uhmm, why is there no "please for the love of god, have mercy and finish the fucking word before I shoot myself" seriously though, why is there no "I like it" option, to a "do you like" question ?...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2020
3 points

Thank you for the support. It's not mainly about suicide but more of that I don't really care if I die. Like if someone told me that I would die tommorow I wouldn't even care, where as most people wou...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2020
9 points

I got the 'best' of both worlds. My stutter is so bad that i get stuck on 1 word for like more than 30 40 sec occasionally. I dont really have a tremor condition (i dont think so) but i shake my head,...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerQuality of Life
postr/StutterAug 17, 2020
8 points

Having a bad day

Having a bad day Had a virtual academic conference today where I had two presentations. Presentations were pre recorded (which is awesome because it took away the pressure of presenting live), but we ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterAug 16, 2020
14 points

I stutter because I don’t want to say anything.

I stutter because I don’t want to say anything. I’ve been working on my stuttering since 2015. I’ve tried to know why I stutter. At first and for a long time, I couldn’t look at myself at the moment I...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterAug 15, 2020
47 points

I worked hard and gave my best!!!

I worked hard and gave my best!!! Yesterday was my VIVA day, and i was freakin worried.... I was doing some excercises for the past few months. Although the VIVA went with difficultly but still, this ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesSchool & Academic Life+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
2 points

Big text incoming Since I live surrounded by morons and ppl with limited brain capacity I get to experience all kinds of stupidity. There were some who were offended by my stuttering (no BS) like, not...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+1 more