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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
2 points

I have a similar story. In 9th grade my stutter was at its worst that it had been in a while, and because of that I didn’t participate at all in classes, and for presentations would regularly rely on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
3 points

I believe because we’re used to overthink before talking a lot, so this trait transfer to other aspects of our life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
11 points

I was also very successful academically, I went to a top university and have a 1:1 in comp sci. Highest overall grade in my year 88%. What I will say is, we are highly neurotic people. Meaning we sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-PerceptionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
2 points

Yes i do have the same stutter.I researched about it and i was told the stuttering is from the mind.The reason you dont stutter when having a random convo,is because you dont think about stuttering. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
6 points

Yes bro,i went through it on a daily basis when i was in school.All through highschool.We used to read a set book in class and the teacher used to follow the sitting arrangement to make everybody read...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
2 points

Yep same here. Thinking about what I’m gonna say is the worst thing. I’m best when replying spur of the moment. It’s worse when I have to initiate conversation or if I have to ask something or tell so...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJan 26, 2023
17 points

Stuttering when planning sentences/words

Stuttering when planning sentences/words Heya! Been struggling with stuttering for the past year, but it seems slightly different than most explanations of stuttering online. Stuttering for me comes...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterJan 26, 2023
8 points

Does practicing by yourself help?

Does practicing by yourself help? For a while my stutter got better but now it's worse again. I'm 33 and my anxiety hasn't helped because all the techniques I learnt as a kid goes out of the way once ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterJan 25, 2023
15 points

Having more control over your mind

Having more control over your mind Hello, so I saw a post that talked about how in order to stop anticipating a word that you will stammer over, you need more control over your brain. I have noticed t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
7 points

Can someone explain/help me understand this experience?

Can someone explain/help me understand this experience? Hi everyone A while back, I had a strange experience. I am still trying to understand it. I had a panic attack for the first time (I believe t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
36 points

Most wouldn’t understand the amount of thought and premeditation that occurs prior to a stutterer speaking. The…negotiations…with theirselves with regards to what the brain is willing to say. Maybe th...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
2 points

For me personally: What makes it worse: talking to family (don’t know why), talking to crowds ex. class presentation (nervous/anxious etc, heart rate def increases), calling on the phone (nervous mayb...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
2 points

Thanks for such an informative comment. I will try all those steps. As you said, I do feel extremely nervous and mostly have blocks rather than repetitions. I think it's because I want to hide my st...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
1 points

I can relate to this really hard. Overthinking/anticipating exactly what I’m going to say is 100% the cause of my blocks. Also, I’m laughing so hard at the part about asking a non stutterer “what stra...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
1 points

You sorta have it reversed- you actually block because you are expecting to block...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
1 points

That's one thing I noticed. We chat a lot about it on the discord. How powerful distractions can be basically. Like someone interrupting mid stutter might be all it takes and then you feel entirely...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
3 points

Yes exactly! I think the environment or how one feels about what their saying, like the weight they give it, has a far greater impact than the word if not being what gives the word it's difficulty in...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
3 points

Interesting, so you think blocks occur when someone is too fixated on how they say it so they block out all outside instances. And to fix it you gotta focus on the outside instances and not your speec...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
2 points

Well said! The more I thought I stuttered around someone, the more I did. The more I thought I'd stutter on certain words the more I did. All bs that I needed to wash out of my head. That's where ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2023
2 points

Hey are you the one writing bullet points on my video's because those are great! Some of the words you used I love and wish I mentioned too :D It looks like you are making a lot of it your own whic...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring