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postr/StutterJun 21, 2022
105 points

just got my dream job despite my stutter

just got my dream job despite my stutter I've had a stutter ever since kindergarten. Even so, I am set to finish my PhD in biomedical engineering in approximately 2 months. It has been one hell of a r...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
3 points

I agree , I think it’s a lot less About stuttering but more about how we perceive it. Then it just turns to a vicious cycle…but thankfully you can work on it and be cognizant about your attitude towar...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
1 points

I worked on not caring what people thought about how I dressed. I started wearing clothes that I liked despite them not following fashion “rules”. I’m not saying that changing your wardrobe will sol...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2022
2 points

I will start to say that I am far from an expert in stuttering, but I did stutter for 15+ years and have basically stopped stuttering. Here are my thoughts and what I did. No person can hear me stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2022
1 points

The most motivational thing is how you yourself feel about your stuttering. rn I am already thinking it is just something like taking a sneeze, and never gonna take it srsly like it will k i l l me o...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2022
3 points

I'm glad to hear you won't stop striving to improve your speech and communication, but I think the best way to do that is to stop chasing fluency....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2022
2 points

In my experience, because people are jerks and it feels that way after so many years of being picked on. It’s not necessary, and it’s hard to not feel like you have to hide it or apologize. Don’t, jus...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2022
2 points

To each his own but I don’t think a stutter can be “fixed” with these types of things. Our brains are different from those who don’t stutter. One doctor told me the parts of our brain that connect tho...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2022
2 points

Well maybe this is a terrible way to deal with it, BUT I accept that those people have terrible conversation skills and will take a back seat in the conversation. I take a few deep breaths to help me ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Mindset shiftFrustration & AngerPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2022
2 points

Who cares? You can’t navigate life carrying about what others thinks. That applies to non stutters too....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2022
2 points

Yeah exactly you kind of want to shake him by the shoulders and tell him to “man up”! Of course, easier said than done...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2022
2 points

THIS. Bingo. Without a doubt, the anticipation of the punchline/key details makes us freeze. Antidote= relax. Just fucking chill. Be real....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2022
2 points

Hey, it's totally fine question! Well, I've kinda made peace with my stutter and I try not to make such a big of a deal out of it when it happens. I stutter a lot and of course I've found some ways ho...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

Just talking to people I've never done speech therapy ever in my life But one size does not fit all I find that tackling the fear of stuttering head-on and not caring has helped me in my jobs an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

I fully understand what you’re saying with reason 2, but I don’t agree at all. It’s your mindset, don’t think, it’s just not helpful and it sets up a victim mentally!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
2 points

Mate I was at that stage to begin with Took a whole lot of year's of practice and not giving a shit to where I am now But that's my journey...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

Cool so you speak a lot on the job. Good for you. We all need to overcome our fears. When I was in college I majored in public policy and my little did I know that the major/ field is stacked with pre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
3 points

I’m a bit younger than you, just turned 20 a month ago. I’ve stuttered since I was 8 years old and I have the kind of stutter where my who body shakes and my face twitches. I use to deal with it in u...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

Take your time and breathe. I also tell my self I don’t stutter. When I’m tryna motivate myself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
5 points

That’s why I said it takes time I still stutter here and there But I’m less in my mind beating myself up Therefore much happier nowadays...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift