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postr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
20 points

Should I finish her sentences for her or let her finish?

Should I finish her sentences for her or let her finish? Hello! I am dating a new girl who is super sweet and kind and I want to be respectful. She has a stutter so she hangs up on words probably ever...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

Sometimes instead of struggling out loud, I'll just go quiet. And if someone guessed what I am trying to say because I act like my mind goes blank before I carry on with a stutter out loud, if they sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
8 points

help

help I’m a 15 year old that has issues with stuttering, I mostly stuttering when I have much stress or if there’s much stuff going on in my mind, but recently my “friends” have been making jokes of th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
2 points

Me! Since I was young, I end up looking so stupid because I can’t say certain letters and just resign myself to the simple idiot role. Or at the moment my colleagues think I need glasses because I hav...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

To be honest, looking back....am not sure what (if any tricks/tools) i used. Maybe i stopped caring... and that let me be less worried about doing it - not sure. I will say, ive been told and notice...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

This hits me to the core, you are right about the avoiding being chosen and not being respected. It’s really isolating and dehumanizing....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & IsolationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

Absolutely the same for me. Like I saw in a few replies, it’s the mental aspect that makes a huge huge difference. We just don’t care if we’re having a good buzz. I like the idea that someone mentione...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

I’m glad you realize we are on the same team My copy of the latest DSM is in my office at work, and I can’t readily find a link to the exact terminology, but I know diagnostic criteria now includes...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

Huh? That wasn’t a definition, and I’m typing on my phone, so I used the old terminology accidentally. Since this is not a peer reviewed comment section, no one expects perfection, and my meaning ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

I have a this as well. I'll be stuttering so much that I just decided to quickly explain I have a stutter and describe the thing I want to say, oddly all without stuttering at all. "Can I have a C.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

I’m not seeing how the research is proving the point you think it is. Correlation doesn’t equal causation. I also don’t need to use it, as I’ve dramatically reduced the impact stuttering has on me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
2 points

That’s a great explanation of it’s an articulation disorder, which it seems to not be, as OP says “water” and “what” fine later on. It’s a very classic stutter block due to being a Covert stutterer, ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
7 points

I can definitely relate. A couple beers or cocktails and I can be the life of the party. Hell my Spanish speaking skills even goes from basic (maybe 1st grade) to something more reflective of someone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
postr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
10 points

can’t say a specific word but can instead describe it normally without trouble

can’t say a specific word but can instead describe it normally without trouble for example this happened awhile back a waiter asks me what i want to drink and i go to say water but it just can't come...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
2 points

OMG this post looks almost the same as my boyfriend and me!!! He had tried speech therapy as I suggested. However, the effect is not as good enough as what we have expected, and he still avoids to tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

My theory is that we sometimes stammer because we are trying to avoid stammering. Sometimes a stammerer who has a solid technique, but still has feared words back away from the technique upon approach...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesLoss of Control
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

This hurts to read and I can only imagine the pain it must be to experience this. Don't take these experiences as a limiting factor for you, you need to find a way to be at peace with your stutter, do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
1 points

Yeah ik that I'm young but I already fear that I will die alone. Not everyone would be okay with dating a stutterer, even less with dating someone with low self esteem and mental health problems, EV...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
2 points

Ok. So real talk here. As a fellow stutterer, did I sleep with escorts? Yes plenty in my 20's. I also got some free action one night stands etc but not all the time as I struggled in the bar / club / ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2025
3 points

Thank you. While its very calm and relaxed, don't you think people are generally impatient? I mean they may consider it as lack of energy and enthusiasm in our speech. With these many pauses, and this...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more