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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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People are allowed to vent and other people are allowed to respond to it. Welcome to the internet where tone is lost and miscommunications are constantly happening. Accepting hard truths was essential...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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You stop dwelling on it by venting and getting it out of your system and having people to extend compassion and comfort. Bottling it up inside, having your feelings dismissed by being told “others hav...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Hey man. My stutter comes and goes but I still stutter daily. My girlfriend and past exes never made me a big deal and not one of them made it a problem. They were patient and kind about my struggles....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Nobody thinks that “gratitude” is toxic positivity. What helps is being allowed to vent without being inundated with useless platitudes like “life isn’t fair” “other people have it worse” etc. I’m gla...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I feel you. Every stutterer who is honest with themselves has felt this way at some point or another. Your feelings are 100% valid. Stuttering can be utterly debilitating at times. I often feel that w...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Hey buddy, I get you. I’ve recently started dating and luckily my partner knows about it and is fortunately very supportive. She encourages me to take speech therapy and always motivates me before I h...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I think as a stutterer, we should give fluent ppl a chance. Many don't even understand the dynamics of it and don't regard it as a disability. So,,,, yeah I'm biased too, if someone still doesn't und...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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My stutter has been so bad these days and I needed to see this. Thank you....

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Now how do you feel about all those things? Obviously in the moments they happen, I'm sure you were pretty mad to say the least. But do you let it bother you or have you basically let it go for the mo...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Sure, man. If I need gym advice or regarding relationships, I will dm you. Yeah, it's really nice to know you're not alone in this specific situation....

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I had a teacher who stuttered. It wasn’t a debilitating stutter but he def had one. Respect to you whatever you do. His name was coach Pfieffer, he was and is a total badass. Not in spite but with a s...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Hey man, I really like your approaches to situations and will try to implement some of your philosophies as I really haven’t developed many. My nature is just to “ignore it until it goes away”, and af...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Yeah, most people don’t usually make any any faces or anything but all my co-workers are really accepting and patient...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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What would you do if you woke up one day and you don’t stutter anymore?

What would you do if you woke up one day and you don’t stutter anymore? I would stay out all day talking to strangers and complimenting them...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I’m in my late 50’s now, and it most certainly does get better. As other mentioned, life changes and priorities change, making it so we don’t care as much about what others may or may not think about ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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1. What has your general experience with having a stutter been like? It was really difficult. I always felt people weren't listening to me. It was socially isolating. Likely stunting my social growt...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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if they are are genuinely your friends, highly likely they do not consider your stutter to be a bother. either they aren’t good friends/human beings or your insecurity has crafted a bit of a false sen...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Don't worry about being a bother. Any decent person wouldn't see you as a bother just because you stutter....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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As a fellow ugly and stuttering person I feel you, but give him a chance if you already arranged for you guys to meet...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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You think about it less. You get better at accommodating. You spend time with good people who don’t care you stutter....

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