Hey man. My stutter comes and goes but I still stutter daily. My girlfriend and past exes never made me a big deal and not one of them made it a problem. They were patient and kind about my struggles. That's the type of person you want, not someone who laughs at your disability. I know this isn't r/relationships , but if you don't talk to her about this then it will always linger with you and you may grow resentment towards her. Sounds like she isn't the one. What is she going to make fun of next? Your kids stutter?