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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2023
1 points

It's not that easy to stutter freely. It feels humiliating when others stop taking you seriously....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2023
2 points

Have PhD, MS in Ops Mgmt and Supply Chain, and I teach as a tenure track professor to MBA (and undergrad) students, present research at conferences, and consult in industry. Lots of talking, definitel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2023
2 points

It doesn't hurt me that bad honestly cause it gives me an excuse to call them out for what a shitty person they are. Don't care if I stutter in the process. It hurts me more when they don't say anyth...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
2 points

Anything that is said negatively about something, a body characteristic of which we have no control hurts us. Such characteristics such as color, height, weight, physical deformity, even gender are pa...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

Bc shame is the ultimate pain - for all of us humans, let alone stutterers. Fortunately or unfortunately we can’t hide it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
5 points

I feel the same. I see stand up comedians who stutter laugh on their stutter experiences. But I would never. Their way of coping is laughing but mine is being depressed or crying until I feel better. ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Humor & Community ToneShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
4 points

I once had to help a customer who had a very thick accent, and I couldn't understand them. I went to answer and stuttered badly, he they walked away. I would of felt bad but I figured I listened to hi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterJul 31, 2023
27 points

Insults

Insults Why is it when someone makes fun of my stutter it hurts so bad. I know I shouldn't take what people say personally because it's only a reflection of themselves, but no matter how much I tell m...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2023
1 points

I've had people say right in front of my face to their friends "I thought she was slow / mentally challenged but she just stutters" also stuttering skank, retard, had people ask me questions to show t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

So true. Stuttering is this condition that we can't quite grasp. It's not this thing where people will understand and have sympathy. They blame it on us because they see it as something stemming from ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
7 points

Yep. When you can’t hold a conversation or explain yourself or your opinions, people view you as uneducated/dumb. I know, logically, that people that are worth my time won’t do this, but it doesn’t st...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
19 points

I’m a female stutterer. I was very opinionated and extroverted when I was young. I was dimly aware of my stutter but was absolutely certain it would go away when I got older because I’d never heard an...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

I have experienced and agree with everything you've written in your post, especially with this comment about the "cuteness" of stuttering women. I hate it, it annoys me so much even though they don't ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
7 points

Yea if I had a penny for every time a guy thought I was cute because of my stutter I’d be rolling in it. After a while it just gets irritating to be honest and you’re right there is also the element o...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

I agree to be patient with the child. From what I Googled, the Lidcombe program In Australia teaches parents to do just that and helps with ideas on how to gently work with the child. That’s great stu...

Parent & CaregiverCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Home SupportSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

Yes, I was the same way too. It was so disheartening to see the look of horror and sympathy when they realized I has a stutter after being fluent previously. I really feel you. Sue...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

Probably not what you want to hear, as far as I’m aware a lot of people who stutter it’s just something they’re saddled with. I’ve tried psychedelics a few times not for stuttering purposes only tried...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

Well, either you do or don’t stutter and my related comments stand. It seems that the Lidcombe program provides a healthy approach for parents to interact and support a child with a stuttering issue....

Parent & CaregiverCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Home SupportSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

To the person who wrote this comment, “Do you stutter?” It seems to me you don’t. I do and I would never give this advice. If you do and you give this advice, then I would just say I strongly disagre...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Treatment DecisionsShame & EmbarrassmentHome Support
postr/StutterJul 27, 2023
63 points

One simple interaction ruins my entire day

One simple interaction ruins my entire day A phone call, a quick greeting, someone asking a question. Whatever it is, it ruins my entire day and makes me think of how stupid I am for not being able to...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness