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I may come here and tell you to not give an f, but let’s be honest we all do. As time passes by, you get used to all this stuff. It still bothers me, but I just don’t focus on it anymore. Try to think...

For me(again just for me) there is. My stutter has dominated psychological component rather than neurological component, and I'd say the neurological component only shares little of the whole picture...

Let me just state I hope you're experiencing a form of recency bias by saying, "I am over giving people chances. People are by and large, superficial and idiotic" When you for damn sure know that o...

It might be helpfu for you to seek thearpy/life coaching that targets not just speech techniques, but also targets emotional and mental wellbeing, and a path to tolerate and accept your stutter. I ca...

Mate I'd highly recommend taking the approach of trying to tolerate the ignorant people. Not for their sake but for yours. You'll have a better life if you are less angry at a the world Most people ...

Imo, there's nothing wrong with speaking up for yourself (if you can) if people are mocking you and letting them know it's not okay, but letting your stutter make you into a "cynical asshole" seems li...

A year ago I would be opposed to this kinda behavior, but now I don’t give a shit. I think it could benefit all of us to be a little more assertive with these inconsiderate people....

not in the slightest. I have played the docile guy for far too long and it hasn’t gotten me anywhere. I don’t go out of my way to be an asshole. It only manifests when a scenario like this takes place...

I will remain an asshole to those that see my stutter as a means of denigrating me. Even if they don’t understand what’s going on and they inadvertently irk me, I simply do not care - I’ll remain an a...

Maybe it's more a case of DIY.. being given a flat-packed kit then having to self assemble..damn difficult and the instructions are crap, but you can do assemble it with a little thought. 😀.. I've be...

You know, by being a cynical asshole you've basically admitted you're letting your stutter beat you into a certain way of thinking. Hating/being cynical takes energy, letting it roll off your back doe...

You didn’t even have to explain yourself, all you needed was to share the last two sentences and that’s all. Can’t let dumb shit get to you....

You do you... But speaking from my own experience, that mindset didn't do me any favors. I carried a lot of anger about my stutter. I was a cynical \*sshole. In hindsight, that attitude that I thoug...

I am over giving people chances. People are by and large, superficial and idiotic. I have no reason to be respectful to the human embodiment of dirt. Stuttering has transformed me into a cynical ass...

Eleven years ago, I just said fuck it. I released from the career I’d had in the air force for ten years, refused to make any phone calls for any reason, and really limited my contact with people. I...

I don't stay change your approach from fighting it. Fighting your stutter is what perpetuates it. That said, it's totally normal and good to take a break when you need it. I do it myself where I'm les...

Yes, during 2016-2020, when I didn't give fk to my stuttering, I could talk nearly as a normal speaker and I am missing those days lol...

Letting it go indeed works significantly for me in my case. I let my stuttering go(namely not giving fk about it) during 2016-2020 then I found out my stuttering was really nearly gone and I could sa...

You suggest it's about not caring about the compulsion. Correction: It's about not caring about our stutter trigger. Caring makes 'I will stutter' important expecting a compulsion...

The more we resist stuttering, the more we have anxiety Conclusion: so we don't have a stutter problem actually. We have a problem engaging in our anxiety...