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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
7 points

I know I've lost out on girls that were very interested in me and I was interested in them, but it felt impossible for me to make any kind of move. You may have to be the pursuer on this one. Especi...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
10 points

I'm an introvert stutterer, and my soon-to-be wife is very much an extrovert. If it works, it works. Reading the post, it seems you're not an AH, so I wouldn't think you have much to worry about. Jus...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
21 points

As men, we're simple creatures. A little physical contact goes a long way. Put your hand on his. Ask him to take a walk. Some of us are incredibly dense as well. You might have to spell it out for h...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomancePower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
16 points

Be clear that you like him. Don’t wait for him to make moves. Just do exactly what you’re doing. Caring considerate, but remove ambiguity. Make sure he knows that you want to spend time with him....

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterOct 15, 2021
26 points

talking to a shy boy i like who stutters

talking to a shy boy i like who stutters i am very attracted to a friends friend who stutters. i dont know him very well and i only see him when we hang out as a group and the last time we hung out i ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
6 points

NSFW Was having sex with an ex, went to say something and stuttered so tried to disguise it as a moan. He paused sex and basically accused me of faking it and yeah thats the most funny thing i can r...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

If you’re usually funny in text then start making jokes about your own stuttering when you’re texting her. Say something like, “I stutter and I’m probably gunna be so nervous when I see you that I’m r...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

In my dating experience I never disclose I have a stutter when first talking to someone new I usually hide it until I’m comfortable enough to let it show. My stutter has never detoured anyone away fro...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
5 points

I’ve been lucky enough to have a loving girlfriend for the past 5 years. She loves and accepts my stutter and it doesn’t bother her ever. She even orders my food at restaurants❤️. If your girl is seri...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
3 points

Honestly I've given up on dating and don't know anything about it let alone giving an advance on the subject but maybe you can bring your stutter up during a text conversation? Hopefully that would le...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 9, 2021
8 points

Online Dating + Stuttering

Online Dating + Stuttering To all the lead-tongued lotharios and disfluent flirts here: I'm dipping my toe into the online dating scene again after a plague-based hiatus and running into an old probl...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
2 points

Thank you. I can totally understand that you are afraid of that and unfortunately i don´t know how to handle this situation perfect. I think that i will ("in my own ´situation´") wait a little bit lo...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
3 points

I can totally understand the point, that you dont want to embarrace her. You enjoy the time with her and you are afraid to loose her if you ask for a date or tell her about your feelings. This is no e...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2021
6 points

Yeah go for it tell her you love her and see what she thinks and be confident about it, put on a happy face. I don't understand why you say you don't wanna "embarrass" her though. Do you think your s...

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Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterSep 25, 2021
7 points

Need some dating advice.

Need some dating advice. So I have a huge crush on a girl in my class but I don´t know if I should try to ask her out or just leave her alone I just don´t want to embarrass her around others, I mean o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2021
5 points

I think we just want to be accepted by everyone else. When we see that progress how we are making new friends and relationships then we start to except ourselves more because we feel more normal. To m...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
postr/StutterSep 22, 2021
9 points

Reading Assignment

Reading Assignment Since I was in the first or second grade I have been stuttering and still stutter. On Monday my English teacher announced that we have to do a book talk. A book talk is you talk abo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
2 points

Weird suggestion... You could write your name and number on a piece of paper and hand it to her (give a puppy dog eyes smile too) as you leave (whatever event it is you're at) and write "text me" on i...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
1 points

Just ask at the end of your shift or something. Or at the end of another good conversation. Would you like to exchange numbers? Or do you mind if I have your number? Keep it simple. You'll do fine...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
1 points

If you were fluent, how would you ask? Do it that way. The earlier you face the "asking a girl out" fears the better your dating life will be. Trust me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance