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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2022
1 points

Depends on situation. If it's casual aquantances I don't bother. They'll work it out. If it's a professional or formal type situation. I just say up front. I have a stutter, I'm fine with it so you d...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
3 points

I used to think this way, I'm moderate to severe overt and I figured people could figure it out themselves. It's honestly shocking how many people don't. It's sitiational for me. Casual interactions...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

That’s awesome man!! That’s great! Yea man, just talk about your stuttering casually like any other thing you would talk about. So cool man!...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Don't say it immediately, just talk and if you happend to stutter, just say I have a stutter, don't mind it ....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Honestly, yes. Otherwise, they would probably think I'm special ed. I'll say it after I start stuttering though....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
2 points

I just said i wanna tell u something personal and then i said that u obviously noticed that i stutter. Are you comfortable with that cause i try to hide it sometimes and it just happens and I can’t st...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
9 points

I never do they find out by watching and listening to me talk. The way I see it if I were missing an arm I wouldn’t have to tell everyone hey my arm is gone they’ll get the picture....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

I think you should but do not need to straightforwards tell them you have a stuttering cuz that is kinda difficult to throw. Just tell them 'Sorry, I have a speech impediment!' or 'Sorry I got some pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Do it! And the sooner in the conversation/meeting, the better. When I was younger I found myself always being afraid (and by afraid I mean often terrified) of what Other People would think about me if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Yes helps break the ice and let’s them know you’re open about it which helps ease the awkward tension between you....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

I say go for it! There’s research that shows that disclosing has positive outcomes for both the listener and the speaker (you). If you’re interested, Dr. Courtney Byrd from UT at Austin has done a lot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Yess! Being open about who you are is the ultimate act of freedom. Disclosures such as telling someone you stutter has the ability to let go a lot of expectations you could be carrying around. A...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJan 15, 2022
8 points

Should I tell new people I meet I have a stutter? And if so, what do I say?

Should I tell new people I meet I have a stutter? And if so, what do I say? So like the title says I have a stutter. Today I’m meeting a group of new people cause I’m in a band program and we’ll be ta...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
3 points

So i just told her about my stutter and she was really cool about it and i asked if she was confortable and she said ofcourse why are you asking that. I think I’m in love lol 😂😂...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

So i just told her about my stutter and she was really cool about it and i asked if she was confortable and she said ofcourse why are you asking that. I think I’m in love lol 😂😂...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

So i just told her about my stutter and she was really cool about it and i asked if she was confortable and she said ofcourse why are you asking that. I think I’m in love lol 😂😂...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
5 points

So i just told her about my stutter and she was really cool about it and i asked if she was confortable and she said ofcourse why are you asking that. I think I’m in love lol 😂😂...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

I block more myself; I’m sure 37 and have stuttered my whole life but have only recently been able to properly admit it to myself and get some help. My advice is to try and be open and speak about it ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

There’s only one way to find out if she’ll judge you and that’s by telling her. Don’t try to think up the perfect life for yourself and then be afraid to figure out otherwise. Go out and find out what...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
4 points

It sounds like you have a mild stutter like me. I'm so sorry for the trauma you faced and that will make dating very hard going forward, believe me. I started online dating almost a year ago now and w...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others