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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
1 points

Yes, I find it really hard to say my name which makes introducing myself a constant matter of worry. However, my name isn’t ‘st’ related, but I must automatically overthink introductions which I think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

**CBT tips to improve stuttering:** * I-CBT: one applies their five senses and common sense in obsessional situations, exactly as they do in non‐obsessional situations. In other words, PWS already po...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
2 points

**"Or any medication, supplemants or drugs that have helped?"** I suggest not to use medication or devices as they reinforce reassurance-seeking. **"What has helped you to minimize stutter?"** Obse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
5 points

If you have a stutter, why are you trying so hard to convince others you don’t? What good is it going to do living a lie and making it harder for yourself? Most of those people won’t care you stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
1 points

I feel like what I’m about to say has already been said by everyone but ADVERTISE that you have a stutter. It takes the pressure off from yourself in trying to seem “perfect” and it will allow you to ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
10 points

One thing that is common and mandatory for everyone that overcame their stutter, is they learned to give f#$& about what other people think or say about them. you need to work on desensitizing you...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
29 points

For me, I think it’s this “desire” to be helpful and please other people and being ever polite so they’ll find it in their hearts to look the other way when I stutter. Constantly putting myself down w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
15 points

If I'm being honest the best way is to disclose at the beginning and block freely. Its f***ing scary but hiding is more stressful and they'll see blocks anyway. At least do it on your own terms. Btw I...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
1 points

I wouldn’t be sure but I believe stuttering in a way can sometimes kinda be like a dissociative disorder. Sometimes your brain might try to block out the current moment because it emotionally doesn’t ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
3 points

I know you’re looking for more practical advice and it looks like you got some from other comments, but here’s a little tip I’ve picked up over the years. Don’t overthink it, just be yourself. I’ve be...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
13 points

These are my tips: * don't pay attention to stuttering in the sense of not let it bother you. If you stutter, don't stress or overthink * don't try to control your articulators like tongue * don't do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
4 points

Hey, I've started seeing these situations as opportunity in disguise, this gives you an opportunity to practice, and this mindset has made my life infinitely better. When the bus driver asks your n...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2022
1 points

I don't use a fluency shaping technique. I always start speaking assuming that I can say it exactly how I want. When I speak I always observe my trigger. The more I really experience the discomfort of...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAnticipating StutteringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2022
3 points

" I also felt like i’m instinctively changing my pitch of voice to higher when speaking the language aloud. Is that the reason?" If we perceive a trigger to stutter, then we anticipate or justify com...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2022
1 points

I agree with it because I don't stutter at all when I talk aloud when I'm alone. Lately I'm focusing on my positive autosuggestions. Because I have the ability of influencing my brain with negative au...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2022
5 points

What helped me: * analyze what your compulsion is: tensing speech muscles, inability to breathe or inability to move articulators * approach your perception to triggers that lead to anticipate, justi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
3 points

Hi, I'm curious if you stutter when you talk to yourself aloud. I don't stutter when talking alone so now I catch myself when having imaginary conversation in my mind and thinking I would not be able ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
4 points

My tip is don't try to hide your stutter. You want to be yourself and you can't do that if you're hiding a big part of you (if you feel it is a big part). I wasn't brave enough to try to date when I w...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
2 points

YouTuber & influencer is 100% possible. Look at drew lynch for example he has YouTube videos and people watch him. Also if you don’t wanna show ur stutter you can always edit it out...

Identity & Disability
Public Awareness / MediaAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 11, 2022
10 points

My story so far

My story so far I stuttered until I was 24 years old, then I found online an article where a doctor started using an antidepressant to treat his stuttering with amazing results. I asked my doctor for...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Helpful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more