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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
1 points

I never really had a certain point I stopped caring. My care meter changes depending on how I'm doing. I care more when I notice I'm struggling more but unless its in a group, I am very talkative. Lik...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
1 points

When I found verbal areas where I didn’t stutter and developed them more. Singing in particular. Sang alone, sang with friends in cars, sang karaoke. Finding that comfort zone (also talking to babies ...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityHelpful Med OutcomesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
2 points

i will later maybe, i’m too scared of fucking shit up i haven’t been with him in a long time and he has been mad today,idk if he still is. i think we need more time together to be better. the meanes...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

If he’s making fun of your stutter he’s an a$$hole clear and simple. Not sure what else to say. Not all fathers are good fathers, or even good people. I know it’s hard to distance yourself from a pare...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
40 points

I don’t like jokes at my expense

I don’t like jokes at my expense i’m at my dads and he keeps making jokes about my stutter. i know they are just jokes and stuff but it hurts my feelings. like i was trying to get a new bra because i ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

But the words I choose make them want to question more. I try all the techniques that I could but I somehow end up feeling drained and frustrated....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
10 points

My mom once asked me when I was a teen in all seriousness "son, have you ever tried ... not stuttering?" Fuck mom, no! I've been the one putting myself through ridicule all these years?! Why didn't I...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
1 points

ure so not overreacting to it. i get so offended even when my best friend makes fun of it mimicking my stutters. it just ruins my mood and i stop talking. but ur bosses gotta be the absolute worsts b...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 25, 2021
17 points

My boss and another manager made fun of my stuttering

My boss and another manager made fun of my stuttering I’ve been working at a grocery store for 2 years, I’ve just recently started another job with better pay and full time but I enjoyed my other job ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
2 points

I wish i could give people who act "shy" my stutter. I embarrass myself like 90% of the time when I talk, but I FORCE myself to say what I need or want to despite the pain in my heart that i get when ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
2 points

I still keep a small notepad in the vehicle exactly for this. Some think its a crutch. Maybe. But, I can assure you that a stuttering block, especially a bad one, just might push me past my own lim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
2 points

Fuck all those who laugh and berate you for your stutter. We didn’t choose this shit. It’s just life dealing us a bad hand. The best we can do is keep moving forward. It’s hard, I know but you can bea...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
6 points

I'm going to get downvoted for this but part of having a stutter is learning to defend yourself. When things like this happen, you need to take your phone out, record, ask for a manager and raise hell...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
20 points

If that happaned to me I would go inside and "Lemme talk to your manager". You should defend yourself. And I am sorry for your brother, he´s not very smart....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
4 points

The laughing always manages to angry me even when you’d think it couldn’t at this point, I feel your pain....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2021
61 points

I feel your pain. We all do. Fuck them all is what I say. It's not your fault. There's nothing you can do about it. I commend you for at least trying....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJun 23, 2021
95 points

I hate my stutter

I hate my stutter I had to order food on the drive-thru because my grandparents don’t speak english and I had to order for them. And halfway through ordering I got stuck in a loop, I couldn’t even shu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2021
2 points

This anger is good. If I were you, I would use this anger to my advantage and overcome the anxiety of stuttering in public and throw myself into worst stuttering situations without controling my fluen...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2021
1 points

I’ve made peace with my disorder, and I appreciate the kind words. For me, it’s more of “dang it, why did I linger on that block for so long?” I can be fairly impatient at times, and even though I kn...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
1 points

I sympathize with this post, usually when I have blockages my head starts to ache, arguing and talking is literally impossible for me, I just shut up....

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Physical TensionStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger