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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
2 points

You could argue that the techniques we use to hide our stutter is somewhat acting. I’m sure Bruce Willis said that he never stuttered during roles because he was that focused on portraying the chara...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
8 points

We understand. I once went without heat/hot water for 3 days in the dead of winter bc I was too afraid to call and give my addesss. When I finally did, the receptionist figured out why I hadn’t call...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
1 points

Actually, I think (and current acadrmic thinking backs this up) that if someone is more fluent when alone, then the only thing that will lead to gaining control of your speech in a *sustainable* way i...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
1 points

IMO, your initial thoughts were right on target! - anticipatory fear causes blocking. Coming up with other names for it and doing complex analysis about what else precedes blocks will just lead to a...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
4 points

To clarify, his information is outdated and comes from the fact that dysfluency was incorrectly categorized as a speech/language disorder, instead of an anxiety-type thing. If you are over the age o...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
12 points

Trying to get rid of something that's a part of you is what makes stuttering so difficult. Learning to accept and stop fighting it is how you live a normal life, saying everything you want, just with ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
5 points

The speaker is incorrect. If you can sometimes articulate the sound, it’s NOT an articulation issue. A stutter block is a function of having voluntary fear response (valsalva maneuver) which causes ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
5 points

Everything you are describing is a stutter or a secondary behavior. This type of impactful blocking dysfluency is ultimately more of an anxiety disorder - which is why even an SLP doesn’t understand ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
2 points

Let me know your progress. I want to additionally say something to explain some terms. For example, I tell myself: 'I can't'. If I engage to 'I can't' by saying: 'Of course I can', then I"m engaging ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
4 points

Find a way to accept it and make it apart of you because after all, it is apart of you. I work in a kitchen and we need to tell the waiters what order we just made. I was working today from 12pm til...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
9 points

That’s good! One day you’re going to say disclosed instead of confessed because having a stutter isn’t a secret you should be ashamed of. Throughout college, you’re going to get more comfortable be...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
2 points

Realise that everyone has their speaking styles. Us stutterers don´t have to fit into other people´s speaking styles. If its too slow for them, alright, but its not our responsibility to fit into thei...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
4 points

Acceptance. It's difficult because of how hindering it can be, but what's helped me is not viewing it as something bad because nobody i interact with has an issue with it only me which says alot about...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
1 points

Talk like how Tommy fckn Shelby talks .. attitude be damn like cool gangster.. slowly and fluently ..the words come out automatically..if u be calm and present..it....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
5 points

Yes. For me it's important to always have a way out to communicate what I want to say for example, confidence, an affirmation or writing it down if nothing else works. Imagine I stuttered but got my m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
1 points

"Try to speak those words and sentences on which you stutter, as much as possible. You will eventually start to stutter less on those words." * I stutter on all letters and words equally because I do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
1 points

Same here as well! It’s weird how it works like that. I use be a lead at my old job so I had to talk to several people and I somehow was able to speak more fluently cause it was fast paced and kind of...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
1 points

Same, also when im in high stress situations that require my full focus i dont stutter, like driving a car for the first time or having to be evacuated because a fire alarm went off, when im not think...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2022
2 points

Try to speak those words and sentences on which you stutter, as much as possible. You will eventually start to stutter less on those words. Bcz your mind will then feel comfortable speaking those word...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
2 points

I became 99.9% fluent by actively disclosing my stutter. I now can say everything I want to, in the way I want to, and when I want to. There's a very good chance that your technique will work for...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more