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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

Its normal. We all have letters/vowels that are specific to each of us but the underlying issue is the same. The situations you mention just highlight that confidence in yourself to speak will defin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

Stuttering is only one facet of ourselves. Many of us believed that we were doomed to be socially, educationally, and economically relegated to lives of quiet desperation. That’s not true unless allo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
2 points

PWS feel like they are “On” when they are speaking to people, especially unfamiliar people. They feel like they are faking it like you say. And there’s this weird dynamic of the harder you try or anti...

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Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
2 points

Thank you. This comment means a lot to me, really. I sort of figured. It's worse when I'm aware of it & consequently begin thinking "don't stutter". If I don't care, it just goes about on its own and ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

I feel guilty that I'm making people listen to me when I stutter. I also feel guilty that I take longer to say what I want to say. Another commenter mentioned that they feel shame. I feel a lot of ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
2 points

You are a terrific communicator. Yes, your speech is noticeable along with your smile, honesty and kind demeanor. Often it’s the mental/emotional/questioning of ourselves that’s worse than the actual ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

Only if recording myself or I think there’s a chance that someone’s listening. Do you guys think that stuttering is caused by deep rooted social anxiety? Or do you think the social anxiety is caused b...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

“Our worst enemy looks at us each morning in the mirror.” I’m certain that you’re waaaaay better than you sometimes think! Stuttering too often chisels away at self-confidence, self-esteem, and happin...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
2 points

You have an amazing outlook regardless of each of the neurodivergent issues you face. Your attitude will allow you to overcome many of life’s challenging. Maximize your opportunities by exploring the ...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

Definitely consider adding a booster to your confidence. Something that has a clear path of progression and visible results of your efforts. For me it was weightlifting. This confidence will transfer ...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
2 points

In my case I was simply born neurodivergent, the gamut of OCD, ASD, ADHD, and Tourette's (could also be a factor). Frankly my childhood was fine and fairly happy, though obviously those things brought...

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Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
3 points

I feel you. I have been stuttering since I can remember. One day I said fuck it, and started to improve myself. It took a lot of time(2 years) and a lot of disciplined effort. I can explain all about ...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
5 points

I don't use any techniques for speaking. These "feared" words are an imagination in your head. It is that way because you have had trouble with them in the past, due to other reasons. Now you associat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 22, 2025
51 points

Has anyone felt like they didn’t get a job because of their stutter?

Has anyone felt like they didn’t get a job because of their stutter? Currently have an interview for my first nursing job. My stutter isn’t severe, but it’s very noticeable when I’m anxious. As with m...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 22, 2025
5 points

I am not sure if I actually stutter

I am not sure if I actually stutter I am told and also kinda remember that as a kid I had a described "robotic" speech, kind of slow and monotone. also I've heard that I was a little late to start tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2025
1 points

“those pathological states only come up depending on what social or physical environment people are in” No. The pathological states in stuttering have been observed at rest, in adults and in children...

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Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2025
2 points

The stuttering mind stuff that occurs is mind boggling maybe just as much as the stuttering itself. It comes as a package for most PWS. I don’t stutter but as an SLP have worked with scores who do. Wh...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2025
9 points

you are much bigger than a stutter, a stutter won't stop you from having a good social life and relationships, from people seeing you for who you are. I'm a fellow stutterer and it took me so much tim...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2025
3 points

You’re posting it on a stuttering subreddit asking if we can notice it so we are analyzing the video for your stutter so obviously we do notice it. But If I was talking to you in person I don’t think ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2025
1 points

Creating has always been an outlet for me to express my feelings and emotions. As an adult now, I kept a politely decent relationship with my parents, we don’t talk about past traumas so nobody gets m...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride