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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2022
6 points

I want you to know you aren't alone, we on this sub know it can get pretty tough out there, life isn't easy, especially for us, but whatever happens, never, ever give up on yourself. My advice is th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
1 points

In my opinion even if there are no therapies that cure stuttering, any therapy could still 'help' in one aspect. Stuttering is a complexity of hardwired mental states but also learned behaviors so any...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
1 points

I agree completely! The first step to progress is to acknowledge that we panic from anticipatory fear resulting in stop breathing out or stop moving our tongue during a speech block. Always **believe*...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

It’s quite simple: In my opinion, a stutterer either believes he/she CAN overcome it, make it better, reduce their stutter or they DON’T believe serious gains in fluency are possible. I learned this f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
1 points

Thank you! What did you learn from Magic of Believing that we could use to improve our stuttering?...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

You put in the work on your social skills, which is awesome! Many stutterers won't do what you - and me - have done. Would love to hear what work you did to improve your social skills? I bet it involv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

First of all, you’re a damn good brother for wanting to help. Here’s my blunt advice, from someone who stuttered badly for 20+ years, then found a unique way to overcome my stutter and live a near flu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

You’re in deep! But I’ve been there. Mindset is, in my opinion, what you should I focus on. Learn to love yourself. Do yourself a favor and read this book, it’s a classic: New Psycho Cybernetics by Da...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
1 points

You’re discovering the magic that happens when your thoughts about stuttering change. What you’ve discovered is real and sustainable. Great job, keep it up!...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
1 points

That’s the rub. It’s complicated and easy at the same time. First step? Watch a documentary called The Secret on YouTube....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

Best advice on here so far! Most stutterers who complain are afraid to put in the hard work. To actually get out of their comfort zone and talk to people. There’s no replicating that. It’s priceless e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

Read the Magic of Believing by Claude Bristol You can find free copies online. It’ll teach you a new mindset possibility. Highly recommend in your case....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

The short term answer is to find work that you can do with a severe stutter. The long term approach is more of a question for you: Do you want to do the hard work required to improve your speech? In m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

It’s a multi-pronged answer, but you need to get more comfortable talking to people, especially strangers. Years ago I created a “One-A-Day” challenge, where I challenged myself to approach one strang...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

That's exactly how I feel. I rolled my eyes when Emily Blunt was mentioned as an inspirational role model for the community. Like have you ever heard her stutter in public interviews at all?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Public Awareness / MediaMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
2 points

Why do you hate the exercise? What's your fluency at your worst? At your best? Do you have any goals for fluency? I'm assuming by posting here and your grammar that you're at least in your teens. Y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
0 points

They say it as a joke to try lighten the mood. Most likely because they can feel the conversation getting awkward. I used to get worked up over stuff like this too but I learned to just have a laugh ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
2 points

100% What OP calls toxic positivity is simply people giving good advice and support. It's your choice to let your stutter define you. You can choose to live differently. Many of us have been ther...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2022
6 points

You hate lectures on acceptance so you're going to hate this. Acceptance is the first step in resolving anything. Spilled a drink? Accept that it happened then clean it up. Dropped a plate? Accept th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2022
1 points

I feel very fortunate and grateful to have discovered this Reddit. So much generosity of spirit and support for, basically, strangers that we will never meet in real life. I am also saddened to read...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more