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postr/stutteringJan 28, 2025
1 points

Anybody else feel like the lack of talking made able to read other people and just know what’s going on around you?

Anybody else feel like the lack of talking made able to read other people and just know what’s going on around you? ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
10 points

I have stutter like you (F24). This is the hard truth, you will face all kinds of people when dating. It’s not as bad as we think(the ones who stutter). I had a boyfriend who was not as supportive as ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
3 points

I don’t have the best advice because I don’t have much experience dating after 18 because I was with my ex for 16 years, but I can share my experience. And I am also struggling now at 34. Dating apps ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
14 points

Just date how you would if you didn't have a stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
3 points

Your stutter doesn't affect you as much as you think. The problem is that you think it does, so you have no confidence things are going to work out when you approach someone. You have to deal with tha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
10 points

One time I told a friend I stutter because he realized I was avoiding certain words, he then proceeded to say “you don’t stutter” i responded “I do, you probably just don’t always hear it or can’t tel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionGenetic & Family Factors+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
13 points

My friend, you are not broken. Stuttering is your accent; it’s how you talk. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of… YOU GOT THIS...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
2 points

Okay, so you’re a kid and this is not to sound rude. “Aura” isn’t real and it’s a made up thing that caught on social media for kids to talk about. If you’re a good kid and treat people well, and be y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

*You said: "Stop seeking to regulate other people emotions. To know that our own emotional state may contribute to the other people feelings but ultimately he or she has the final word."* **How can w...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

>*"When you are alone there is no one to regulate so the neural pathway has no place to be active."* Yes I agree, I wrote a [comment ](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1hwjfrr/comment/m64akw...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

I agree with everytthing you said! >*"So we are on a constant quest of regulating our own emotional state to support the other people emotion. That is the main code that is embodied on our brain. Tha...

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Trauma & PsychologicalPropositionality & WeightAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

I have this weird theory that the reason why we block is because when we were little we got the idea that regulating our own emotional state may regulate the other person´s emotional state. If we reg...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
1 points

its all psychological, I had a stutter that developed because of stress in school, and I thought of myself less. and y'know put myself down. Then I re-affirmed I had a stutter and told myself I do, an...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
3 points

I have heard of something called “spontaneous recovery”, where people one day just wake up and don’t stutter anymore. I believe it’s possible. Also believe it’s possible to get to the extent that you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringTrauma & PsychologicalHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
7 points

I'm fluent, but I'll always be a stutterer. It comes out once in a while. When I am extremely tired and stressed. Don't think of it as a binary. Fluency is a spectrum, like most things. Even perfect...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
43 points

Well, me. I stuttered mildly for 60 years, from the time I was a young lad until June 7, 2021 at 8 AM. Then I had a stroke. I was semi-conscious for about two weeks. A couple of weeks after my dis...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

Exactly! From my understanding dopamine antagonists can improve stuttering by skipping/ignoring the evaluatoin process. So.. what I mean by that is.. let's for example consider that a stutterer does n...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

Yes, I am also a person who stutters, and I proudly work as a Software Engineer. This is proof that having a stutter doesn’t limit what we can achieve. Remember, our abilities are far greater than our...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

>*"If we have a stutter but don’t feel social anxiety or pressure, then it must be MORE neurological, right? "* Questoin: If we stutter, but we don't feel social anxiety or pressure. **Does this mea...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

>*"Stuttering can be difficult to accept due to external psychosocial factors."* No I meant the opposite haha :D, for example, if we do not experience or feel any general anxiety or psychosocial trig...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more