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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
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There are several, some more public like a person laughing so uncontrollably that he almost fell in front of a crowd of people. But the most distinct/weird one i have in mind, which thankfully didn't ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2023
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> but be sure to tell them the problem as it occurs for you, bc most people think stuttering is jjjjjust tttthis. I´ve tried, the answer often it to look for psychotherapy sessions - which may he...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
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>LOL why do you think? Stuttering is embarrassing This is how you quote. YOUR WELCOME...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
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If you teach yourself to tolerate the discomfort, your life will improve significantly. Its an unfortunate reality, but we have to withstand embarrassment to live our lives....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
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"If you’re willing to let socialization go, why aren’t you willing to let go of embarrassment first?" LOL why do you think? Stuttering is embarrassing...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
1 points

If you’re willing to let socialization go, why aren’t you willing to let go of embarrassment first? Im not trying to be dismissive or kick someone when they’re down. But ask yourself that question. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
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you’re being wayyy too hard on yourself, and you’re also expecting yourself to talk “normally” when that’s not really a thing, there’s a vast numbers of ways to communicate. Your brain is obsessed on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2023
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I am not sure of the objective measure of severity but I would personally say mine is very severe and intrusive. It is something that is recognised by everybody immediately upon meeting - like a black...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
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I think it is entirely possible that you are correct in some regard, that I do make things worse for myself because my perception of myself worsens my behaviour which is the truly off-putting thing. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2023
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This is true. I think people find that how it looks to them is quite funny so they do not consider that it is painful sometimes. Otherwise, they do realise this and it makes them feel embarrassed, as ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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I think I probably was seen as retarded or disliked in class because I didn’t do the speaking exams for my mandarin class because of how bad my stammer was, on the other hand I was really good at writ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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I think that I will not have any friends for the next two years.

I think that I will not have any friends for the next two years. Though this is quite obvious (why else would I post here?), I have a very bad stammer. I get long blocks and pull strange faces, my mus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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Yeah I have a similar issue, also with being prevented in saying what would otherwise be a funny joke outright because I know I’ll stutter. Also I think having it in childhood effects one’s self-image...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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Tease you? If you’re lucky they’ll patiently wait for you to finish with a blank expression. Most of the time though it’s a “can you repeat that?” With an expression of confusion and slight disgust....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2023
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>This AI-powered tool listens to your speech and provides targeted insights for improvement. It identifies where you stutter most and suggests effective strategies to overcome it. I'm confident yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Once some new person talks to me for a bit. Later they don't want to approach you or ask you anything. As they don't want you to be embarrassed when you speak and stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Coming off as rude or standoffish because I avoid introducing myself or talking to people. If only they knew the half of it!!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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Nobody has ever told me straight up but I always just get the sense that people think I'm "slow" or mentally disabled in some small capacity when I'm not. Like another commenter said earlier, I have a...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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I’m so sensitive about it . I would cry if someone even mentions it. It makes me feel less than. I love sales and would excel in sales, i’m a creative person. However since i stutter i don’t feel capa...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterDec 22, 2023
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What ONE thing you hate about stuttering

What ONE thing you hate about stuttering Just state one Let me go first People thinking am nervous or cold and telling me to calm down or wear something warm...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment