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commentr/StutterMar 27, 2025
1 points

I totally understand why you may be obsessed with LGBT , I just find it to have all the signs of a néw type of religion.. Because LGBT is still pretty new to society its the shiny sparkly thing that...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2025
6 points

My friend I have same problem,but what I seen more I talk easy it is for me after,so my advice is just keep talking (more you talk more comfortably you feel)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2025
1 points

You could write up a short statement that says "I stutter" and give it to the optician "I can't say the letters W, R, or L. If I see one of those letters, I'm going to say 'banana' (or 'zorro', or w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
2 points

I also speak my native language (Arabic) 80% fluent but when I come to english I stutter more severely...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
1 points

But seeking out a random person in a support sub to personally insult them is *mature*. You remind me of Donald J. Trump....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
2 points

I’m in Japan right now on vacation. I have taken Japanese before and can get by, but Japanese is SO HARD for me as a stutterer. The language is so fast and plosive….. it is really hard to use speech t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
3 points

I used to tell ppl my name was Jane bc I blocked on my name. Definitely got caught a few times!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
1 points

I just repeat alphabets everyday and try to mix words(e.g when you have to say からあげ, I just say Karaage instead of pausing between kara and age, btw this method is also used by Japanese too) But sadly...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
5 points

Same bro. I am N3 level and live and work in Japan and as an N3 level i should be able to have basic conversations and stuff, which i can do, IN MY HEAD. But when it comes to talking in real life, i a...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
13 points

My native language is Spanish and I live in America. When I talk to other Spanish speakers they want to talk to me in English because they think I don’t know Spanish. I feel your pain brother....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
0 points

Asking someone if they want to date does not warrant a conversation with HR if it’s done respectfully and if you don’t press the conversation past a no. A large percentage of lifelong relationships ar...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
1 points

worse, I believe its because I barely talk to anyone and even at school I just avoid speaking to ppl but even if they do I either ignore them or avoid trigger words. it's crazy to think ppl just see m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests+1 more
postr/StutterMar 26, 2025
6 points

job hunting with stutter (help) !!

job hunting with stutter (help) !! hi there! i’m a first year uni student currently working at a big supermarket and looking for a second job. in the past 4 weeks i have gotten rejected 6 times after ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
2 points

When I was in my early twenties, I took a 2-week workshop in Italy that changed my life. Basically the teacher asked us whether we used stuttering to avoid things that scared us. I realized immediatel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
2 points

Yea I used be the same. Mostly though, I found myself talking fast. If you find yourself talking fast or rushing speaking, try resetting and saying the sentence again. Exhale through mouth, then breat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
3 points

Try using speech disorder or speech impairment to get the point across. Stutter is used too casually in society to describe all sort of things, like a TV or video 'stuttering' or fluent people saying ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
2 points

this is the funniest shit to me because I am a terrible liar and it's always a last min choice between honesty and fluency. I try to only do it with people I know I won't see again like working custom...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
2 points

A feeble attempt at Trauma Bonding in the most disgusting way to establish something in common. It may be soothing to them to attempt at something that bonds us together but it’s a feeble effort to cr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
1 points

i think he means he "overcame" how debilitating and embarrassing it was for him as a child. he usually always specifies that he overcame how he could barely say a word and other behaviours due to it. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
3 points

For me it certainly is, and it's something that I recognise but have always found hard to tackle 'in the moment'. What we need to remember is that we can control the pace of conversation if we want to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries