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postr/StutterDec 31, 2021
20 points

At what point do I stop being nice to someone?

At what point do I stop being nice to someone? So I have a stutter and my job requires a lot of talking. I’m a cashier and have to talk on the radio and also just chat with other coworkers as well. Li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
2 points

Sameee I stutter when speaking in Arabic; as a kid I was rarely spoken to in Arabic and mostly watched English TV so my Arabic was never that good. I personally think my issue is that I was afraid of ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
4 points

I literally joined this group because I’m starting to apply for a jobs and I got a phone call today… did not go so well, I mumbled and felt like a stupid kid and I’ve been upset the whole day thinking...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
2 points

This is what i want to saaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy I HATE STUTTERING...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
6 points

Same it makes me mad too because they have no idea the struggles we have to face because of our stutters :/...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
8 points

Damn that sucks. This reaction always makes me mad because I’ve went though opening up to a teacher and it doesn’t matter. Its like telling someone in a wheelchair to just walk. Or telling a person wi...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
2 points

I know, idk if you mean the same but the minute I get really enthusiastic about what I'm talking about it's speech blocks and stutters all the way...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
1 points

dont lose it becausd of your stuttering. win it by walking away and acting like you dont care. Most peopley when they want to win a heated argument want to win, so its almost always more effective to ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
8 points

I definitely find the same. When I'm excited to talk about something and I don't care about what they think, I don't think to use mitigation techniques, stutter very badly, and get frustrated....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 29, 2021
41 points

I just stutter more around the people I actually LIKE talking to. Anyone else the same way?

I just stutter more around the people I actually LIKE talking to. Anyone else the same way? People I'm serving at my job, one type associates... (I.E. people I don't really give a shit about) I talk j...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & WeightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
2 points

To be honest, I don't argue a ton because I feel that I can lose control of my speech and I also don't enjoy the feeling of losing control or getting overly angry...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Loss of ControlFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
1 points

This may not be the high road, but never forget everyone has weak points you can press on, ESPECIALLY someone who makes fun of yours. It's a way for them to deflect vulnerability from themselves. Stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
3 points

Stop arguing. It's rare that an argument ends in a positive outcome. Don't get me wrong. I like to argue. But truth is, I'd probably have more friends if I argued less. IDK what is to be gained by w...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
1 points

It's not about one person it's about most arguments I got into. I hate losing them as I always do because of my stuttering and I feel angry about it...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
3 points

I have been trying to put it under control for a long time and I made a breakthrough but when I lose an argument because of stuttering It just gets out of control...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
2 points

I know I can't win it so why bother. Im not even interested in winning but I hate the anger that comes with losing an argument because of stuttering...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
9 points

A bit off topic... Get your anger under control. Anger eats at you. I had a lot of anger and resentment about having a stutter. I'm fluent now, but the anger has stayed with me. It's always there. ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 29, 2021
26 points

(Serious advice needed) How do you act during an argument with someone who doesn't like you and deliberately uses your stutter against you?

(Serious advice needed) How do you act during an argument with someone who doesn't like you and deliberately uses your stutter against you? I get very angry during arguments because I always lose them...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 26, 2021
9 points

3-4 years of stuttering…

3-4 years of stuttering… Ok, so first of all… sorry if my english is not that good… english is my second language. Right now I'm 27 and I have been stuttering for almost 3-4 years… before that I did ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2021
5 points

This was beautiful. I loved what Sanchez said where he likes the stuttering version of himself better. I also could really relate to the frustrated screams before you a ate your burger....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger