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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
15 points

A disability, by definition, is an impairment that limits major life activities. Speaking is 100% a major life activity, and stuttering impacts our ability to speak and communicate effectively....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

The UK definition is: >You’re disabled under the Equality Act 2010 if you have a physical or mental impairment that has a ‘substantial’ and ‘long-term’ negative effect on your ability to do normal da...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Access & RightsIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
12 points

Officially, yes. Personally, I think it depends on your experience and how it affects your daily life. As someone with a severe stutter, I consider it a disability because it impacts all my interactio...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Access & RightsQuality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

Take this example: there was a speech therapist and researcher who stuttered.. she stuttered at an intermediate to mild level. She stuttered as a child and even at age 17. but then some few years late...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & ProfessionalCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideTherapy Experiences+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
13 points

Congratulations you took the first step. Not every girl has a boyfriend. You’ve experienced your first reaching out. Now you're on your way to not be lonely. I'm a 78f who has stuttered since childho...

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Dating & RomanceHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
1 points

A couple of months ago you were thinking about wrapping up your stutter theory. I am actually really interested in it! perhaps could you share more details on it? Also, I’ve read all your insightful ...

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Research & ResourcesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

It's mad how much our environment really changes out mental states. Since going away I now look at comfort at the enemy. When you're comfortable you don't strive for change, and change is what (imo) w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

I’m not OP, but what you said about the context of your stutter and insecurity hit home. I’ve been through that—even when I went to HCRI treatment years ago, I was 100% fluent after two weeks there. T...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
3 points

First, I'm so sorry for your experience. I ask myself how reasonably educated adults can traumatize their children to that extent. I'm sure my parents contributed to the lifelong stuttering. They ini...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

That’s fair! Some people who are more on the “severe” side don’t really have the ability to conceal the fact that they stutter. Sure, they can work to reduce the amount of stuttering but they have to ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
3 points

Many stutterers are fluent, you know why? Because they desire to be fluent. Life is made of desires, you can not run from it except you want to Saint. Desire of knowledge makes a person a knowledgeabl...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
3 points

Yeah that’s very true, the statement I made was very broad but I just wanted to offer up what helped me. I’m not saying I’m 100% correct. I think it has to do more with material possessions and main...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
5 points

The absolutist statement (which you didn’t say but for the sake of argument let’s pretend is being contended) that all desire causes suffering is wrong. Desiring a drink of water when you are thirst...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
5 points

I’m really sorry you went through this, I get it. Both of my parents are narcissistic and my Dad has anger issues which caused a pretty stressful household growing up which made my stutter worse. My D...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
1 points

Same here!!! None of the other girls stutter in my house expect me...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
3 points

No, I was so worried about knowing the material I didn't care if I stuttered. It was 3 people questioning me, 10 questions but each question was a big subject that they then delve into and ask furthe...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringAnticipating Stuttering+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
1 points

The challenging thing about Emily Blunt is that we hardly ever hear her actually stutter. Of course, it's completely valid for a person who stutters to naturally have a lower stuttering frequency, but...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
2 points

Aslong as you got hobbies or interests there are people out there. I stutter often when talking to new people because its anxious but after the first sentence of them being shocked they treat you like...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
1 points

the national stuttering association has regular online meetings for women who stutter. Info is on their website. There's also an instagram page for teen girls (I know you're a few years past that age,...

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Research & ResourcesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
2 points

First off, I’m so happy you’ve found a community that supports you and makes you feel welcome!! That’s an incredible thing and something that can be so hard to find as someone who stutters so I’m so h...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more