First off, I’m so happy you’ve found a community that supports you and makes you feel welcome!! That’s an incredible thing and something that can be so hard to find as someone who stutters so I’m so happy that you’re finding a place where you feel valued! Sharing your feelings with someone you care about is never a bad thing, and you never know until you share them how they feel. Scoping it out also isn’t a bad thing, so I’d say go for it! Ask him to spend some time with you, show you around his state, and if things go well then that’s great!! If they don’t, don’t feel like you need to abandon the community that you’ve found, because without you there I’m sure it will be a less enriching experience for others given how thoughtful and kind you seem!!